Types of etiquette for children: at the table, at a party, behavior on the street, in public places, at school, in the family, in the theater. Etiquette of politeness, communication, speech, telephone

Etiquette rules for children are one of the important topics that parents should raise in their family in a timely manner. A person of any age living in a society must take into account the norms of behavior accepted by this society and follow them. The child’s place in society depends on how conscientiously parents raise their child.

What is etiquette?

Etiquette is a set of norms and rules governing the behavior of people in society or an individual social group. When we talk about etiquette for children, we mean the rules of good behavior, first of all, in relation to adults, because they are the ones who can evaluate behavior as “good” or “bad” due to their experience.

Etiquette is divided into different types– there are both generally accepted rules and special etiquette for individual cases (for example, official, religious, mourning). Etiquette should be taught to children gradually, and up to school age those rules are enough good manners that kids can apply in everyday situations.

When to instill good manners?

You can teach children rules of behavior as early as younger age, although awareness will come much later - after 5 years. Children should be introduced to table manners from the age of 2. The child is already quite capable of eating on his own, which means it’s time to start explaining how he can and cannot behave while eating.

Preschoolers are taught etiquette by their parents at home and by teachers in kindergarten. The baby is in the company of adults and children; situations arise around him every day that require politeness, respect for elders, and the ability to interact with peers.

When a child grows up and goes to school, his level of freedom will increase, and there will be less control from adults. All omissions of parents in upbringing will be clearly visible, and correcting the behavior of schoolchildren is not easy. That is why the rules of etiquette and ethics (the foundations of ethics and ethics) must be laid down from an early age.

What should a preschooler know?

The best example for a child is family members, primarily parents. By imitating them, the baby learns good and bad, so parents must control their behavior in front of the child. You should not forcefully teach your child politeness if, due to his age, he still cannot understand why he needs to say hello to strangers. Or with those about whom his parents do not speak very well. In addition, imposing rules can lead to a backlash – protest.

Around age 5, just when adult imitation is in full swing, is the time to start paying your child's attention to how you interact with other people, especially outside the family. Here are the rules that a preschooler needs to know so as not to get into an awkward situation and not make their parents blush.

Speech etiquette

It is necessary to follow the rules of speech etiquette not only with members of your family, but in general with all children and adults, not necessarily only with acquaintances. Adults should set an example for children and also follow the rules of communication:

• greet family in the morning, wish Good night before going to bed;
• greet acquaintances on the street and at a party, and then say goodbye to them;
• say hello to your neighbors, even if you don’t know each other personally;
• use the words “thank you”, “please”, “be kind”, “sorry”;
• address strangers using “you”;
• do not insult, do not tease other children, do not snitch, do not provoke;
• apologize if you did something wrong;
• say “let me interrupt you” if you need to address one of the speakers.

Table etiquette

A child should be taught table manners from an early age, and as they grow older, the requirements for the child will increase. The way a child behaves at the table creates the main idea of ​​his good manners, cleanliness and respect for such things. family ritual like eating.

During meals, you must observe table etiquette:

• you need to eat only in a designated place (kitchen or dining room);
• use cutlery during family meals, this also applies to small children (prevent smearing food with your fingers on the plate);
• you need to eat from your own plate, do not comment on the contents of someone else’s;
• do not pounce on food if not all family members have gathered;
• do not chat with your mouth full, remember the rule “when I eat, I am deaf and dumb”;
• chew with your mouth closed;
• do not play with food, do not indulge in drinks (do not spill tea, water, do not drink juice loudly through a straw);
• it is indecent to express your negative opinion about food (“ugh, that’s disgusting”, “I won’t eat this”);
• it is indecent to put your elbows on the table, to push;
• It’s not nice to stretch across the entire table; you need to ask the person sitting next to you to pass something;
• You can’t pick your mouth at the table;
• you need to use a napkin or towel, and be able to ask for a clean napkin;
• take from the plate that piece of bread (piece of pie, sandwich, fruit) that is closest, and not choose the one that is larger or more beautiful;
• Moreover, it is indecent to take a piece from a common plate, hold it and put it back;
• before leaving the table, you need to wait until all family members have finished the meal, or ask adults for permission to leave;
• You can’t take a plate of food and go to the TV or to another room.

Guest etiquette

When visiting, you need to behave calmly, show respect to the owners of the house and follow the rules:

• do not come empty-handed (bring some kind of treat, even symbolic);
• do not ask for tea without an invitation;
• always say hello to the owners of the house;
• you cannot walk around rooms without permission and touch other people’s things on shelves or inside cabinets;
• It is strictly forbidden to jump on beds, sofas, chairs, even if the owner’s child does this;
• do not throw hysterics, do not demand anything from the owners of the apartment;
• keep clean, throw away trash after yourself (candy wrappers, juice boxes), collect toys after yourself;
• calmly pack up and leave when the time comes, do not demand to play more;
• Be sure to say “thank you” for the hospitality and food, and say goodbye to the owners of the house.

Family etiquette

The rules of behavior in each family are established individually, but there are common ones for all - respect and mutual understanding.

When communicating with family members, you must adhere to the following rules:

• older relatives must be treated with respect, without being rude, not insolent, or undermining the authority of the head of the family;
• You cannot swear or shout at family members;
• if you need to get into the room of your parents (or other relatives), you should definitely knock;
• it is at least ugly to tell or “report” on a brother or sister;
• It is important to respect the work of family members, be it cooking, cleaning the house or playing together.

Rules of behavior on the street

If at home only family members can judge a child’s upbringing, then on the street all the flaws in upbringing are striking. So that you don’t have to blush awkwardly and embarrassly take your baby away, teach him the following rules:

• there is a trash can for garbage;
• It is forbidden to walk on lawns or pick flowers from flower beds;
• it is indecent to point a finger at people and discuss their appearance out loud;
• you cannot cross the road whenever and wherever you want if cars are driving along it;
• You should not intrusively tell any personal information to strangers;
• it is forbidden to leave the place where the parent left the child waiting for him, or where they agreed to meet;
• When walking, you should not run far ahead of your parents or hide in busy places;
• when moving along the sidewalk, you need to walk on the right side (analogy with lanes for cars);
• Don’t stop in the middle of the sidewalk to tie your shoelace or chat with a friend—you need to step aside.

Behavior in transport

Sooner or later, you and your child will have to go somewhere by public transport, so instruct your little passenger in advance on how to behave on a bus, train, train, or plane:

• on the bus, give up your seat to older people (if the child is still small, then explain that now he needs to sit for his own safety, and another person will give up his seat to the grandmother);
• offer a place to pregnant women (when the child already knows this concept);
• on a long-distance train you cannot run around the carriage or knock on other people’s compartments;
• do not shout, do not knock on the wall of the train compartment;
• on an airplane you cannot stand up from your seat if this is temporarily prohibited, shout loudly, or push the seat in front with your feet;
• in any type of transport, it is indecent to dirty the person sitting in front with your feet or push the back of the chair with dirty shoes;
• It is forbidden to shout, laugh loudly, or sing songs.

Rules of conduct at the theater, circus or other cultural event

Parents have the opportunity to introduce children to cultural life from an early age - theaters, museums and other institutions are now available almost from birth. Therefore, before visiting such places, you need to explain to your child how to behave:

• do not be late for the performance, but arrive with plenty of time to pass outerwear, visit the restroom if necessary;
• come to the hall before the program starts in order to take your seat and not disturb your neighbors;
• if you are still late, you need to move forward to your seat along the row facing forward, and apologize for the inconvenience caused;
• do not crunch on food or make noise with your drink during a performance or movie show;
• do not talk during the session, do not answer phone calls, put the device on silent mode.

General rules of conduct

There are things that unacceptable anywhere, in any group:

• scratching, picking teeth, ears, nose in public;
• get ahead of others when passing through a door, for example, in a store;
• scream, run, slam doors;
• be rude, answer questions unkindly;
• cough without covering your mouth and burp without apologizing;
• shouting on public transport;
• run and step on feet;
• shuffle your feet when walking;
• chew gum without covering your mouth, chew loudly in public.

Rules of conduct for preschoolers in pictures

You can teach your child etiquette both by example and by visual aids. You can explain how to behave in society and show. The book “Etiquette for Kids” in pictures by E. V. Sokolova and N. N. Yankovskaya is suitable for this.

When showing your child a picture, you can ask leading questions: “What do you think is shown here? How should you behave?" Let the child try to formulate the rules of behavior himself.

Learning by playing

You can also teach your child the rules of good manners through play. Conduct politeness lessons at home when you are studying with him or just playing in the nursery. You can play out situations with the help of dolls and your favorite toys - write a fairy tale about someone ill-mannered, act out a mini-scene, come up with etiquette games (“tea party with dolls”, “the bear went to visit”, etc.), and then - discuss and ask: “Who did the right thing? And why? Who will mom praise?" You can put on a whole theatrical performance for kids.

Read books on this topic and discuss which of the characters behaves correctly and which is rude to others. There are many books on the topic of children's etiquette, here are some of them:

1. “Etiquette for children of different ages”, A. Usachev;
2. “Rules of Conduct”, E. Beaumont;
3. “Polite words”, O. Korneeva;
4. “Sociable Tales”, T. Shorygina;
5. “The ABC of Politeness”, L. Vasilyeva-Gangnus;
6. “School of politeness for small owners”, N. Ivanova, G. Shalaeva;
7. “Rules of conduct for well-mannered children”, G. Shalaeva, O. Zhuravleva, O. Sazonova;
8. “The most important rules of behavior for well-mannered children”, Harvest publishing house;
9. “Etiquette for Fidgets”, Clever publishing house;
10. “How to behave at the table. Etiquette for everyone in stories, poems, pictures,” ed. R. Dankova.

In preschool educational institutions Children are taught politeness using specially designed programs. Teachers organize classes and teach children the rules of good manners, but this does not mean that parents should abandon this topic and rely only on teachers.

Note to parents

It is difficult to name the exact age when you need to start teaching your child good manners. It is necessary to instill in a child norms of behavior with family members and society from birth, even when the child does not understand the whole essence. He understands the intonations, the mood of his family and sees the picture of what is happening.

The table below clearly illustrates approximate age limits when you can introduce your child to the rules of behavior.

Table “When and how to teach a child etiquette”

Age	What to pay attention to
Up to 1 year	We use polite words in our speech (“thank you”, “please”, “ Good morning", "Good night")
	We wash our hands before eating, saying out loud why we need to do this
1-3 years	We instill neatness - use a bib or napkin, change soiled clothes after eating, wash your face and hands
	We instill norms of behavior and communication in the family, showing by example respect and politeness
	We teach to eat with a spoon and fork, we replace the sippy cup with a mug
3-5 years	We improve the skill of using cutlery, teach how to eat carefully - do not move away from the table, lean towards the plate so as not to spill the soup, and not to spread “dirt” around you
	We actively teach independent personal hygiene - brushing teeth, washing hands, using a handkerchief or napkin.
	We teach you to cover your mouth when coughing or sneezing; don’t forget about polite wishes addressed to another person (“Be healthy”)
	We introduce the child to the rules of behavior in public places, transport, visiting, cultural events, in kindergarten
5-6 years	We continue to introduce the child to table etiquette, adding the use of a knife to everyday life
	We improve our knowledge of guest etiquette, apply the rules if we go on a visit; we correct mistakes, explain to the child why some actions are unacceptable
	By our example we constantly show how to communicate in the family and in society outside it, we monitor our behavior
School age	Let’s not forget everything we instilled in the child before; we remind you how to behave at the table (in the school canteen), in lessons (speech etiquette, respect for the teacher, peers), in transport (independent trips) and public places

Instead of a conclusion

Children are independent individuals, but at the same time they are an extension of us, adults, our reflection. Looking at how a child behaves with the people around him, one can draw far from superficial conclusions about the standards of decency accepted in his family. It’s not for nothing that they say that you need to educate yourself, not children, because children take their cues from those they see every day, whom they love and whom they want to imitate.

Set good examples so that your children's behavior will not disappoint you. Even from a distance, you will be sure that you will not have to blush, apologize and have unpleasant conversations with your child in the hope of correcting what you missed.

Etiquette rules for children are a collection of standards of behavior and good manners, following which a child will always look well-mannered and polite. You should teach your child etiquette from the very beginning. early age. It is best if the baby sees a good positive example of his parents.

When parents are well-mannered and cultured, children imbibe good manners with their mother's milk. You should not start your education with boring and mournful conversations and moralizing about the rules and norms of behavior in public places. Psychologists say that this style of teaching causes most children to become disgusted and distrustful of the fact that it is worth observing the norms and rules of behavior.

Children's first acquaintance should take place in the form of a game. Game moment training is the most effective and simple. Children quickly learn and remember what their parents require of them. For example, act out small scenes with household toys. Play out situations like:

• going to the theater;
• shopping trips;
• attending film shows;
• attending dinner parties;

They do an excellent job teaching children and books. In children's literature, using simple and accessible examples, girls and boys are shown how to behave in various situations.

The main goal that relatives and friends should convey to the child is respect for others. This will be the axiom that must be fulfilled, because it is on a polite and courteous attitude towards people that the entire science of behavior and communication is built.

Etiquette rules for school-age children

If we talk about teaching schoolchildren and preschool age, it may differ significantly. Already from the age of 5-6, when the child is gradually being prepared for school, classes about manners and norms of behavior should resemble interesting conversations.

When a child grows up and goes in school, recommend the following forms of classes:

• conversations;
• trainings;
• games.

Let's talk about each type in more detail. So, a conversation session: how does it go and what main elements does it consist of? Lessons of this kind are always built on close communication and interaction between the teacher and students. The teacher, in this case a teacher, tells a short instructive story, at the end of which there is a discussion with the children. Such lessons allow you to understand how children grasp the material, what interests them and how horses develop. The “question-answer” form of lessons makes it possible to communicate not only with one student, but involves the whole class in the dialogue. In addition, each student must:

• answer questions in a reasoned manner;
• think through the situation;
• make your own decision.

If we consider training lessons, then this technique is considered new and its the main objective- consider people's behavior from different angles. The effectiveness of these classes is achieved due to the fact that children are given the opportunity to play out two situations: correct and incorrect, and then make a decision. The main task of the teacher in such classes is to guide the children in the right direction and follow the general theme of the training. The main method of training is the answer to the question “what will happen if...?” Children themselves think through and model the behavior of the characters.

Lesson-games are perhaps the most exciting and favorite among schoolchildren. junior classes. Material to be supplied to game form, they will easily understand. Such classes allow you to assess the level of self-esteem of each student. You can have individual conversations following the lessons.

Table etiquette rules for children

Let's talk in more detail about table manners and how to handle cutlery.

The child must know the basic rules of behavior, which include: the following:

• When you sit down at the table, you must put a napkin on your lap. If someone inadvertently takes your napkin, do not shout or notify everyone about it. Quietly ask your neighbor where you can get an extra napkin. Most parents, when visiting, do not understand how to properly use a napkin. Place it on your lap or tuck it into your collar. According to experts, if your child has not reached the age of five, then the best option will tuck it into the collar;
• When your child sits at the table, control his posture. Make sure your back is level, your soles are parallel to the floor, your back rests on the back of the chair;
• if the need arises, let the baby not be shy and hold the glass container with both hands. It is difficult for small hands to handle such containers, let them help themselves, and you tell them how best to take this or that item;
• when for festive table When they start passing a basket of food, they always do it from left to right. If you are asked to serve a holiday dish, you must do it with your left hand;
• Always wipe your mouth with a tissue before drinking juice. Do this for yourself and your child. Then a clear example will be before his eyes;
• If you suddenly need to go to the toilet, get up and, after apologizing, leave for your needs.

Rules for talking on the phone: etiquette for children

When a son or daughter communicates on the phone or answers calls, it is important to monitor how they do this. If necessary, you need to make adjustments to their behavior.

When a child calls his friend, at the beginning of the conversation he should greet the interlocutor. Any request coming from your child's mouth must be accompanied by polite words. If the phone call is answered not by a friend, but by someone from his family, it is very important not to ignore this moment, but to say hello and introduce yourself. It is important to maintain subordination. When an adult's voice is heard on the phone, it is inappropriate to say, “Hello.” In such situations they say: “Hello.” The conversation always ends with a polite “Goodbye.”

Transport etiquette rules for children

In public transport, any person, regardless of his age, must adhere to the norms and rules of behavior. If your son or daughter is already old enough, explain to them that when entering a vehicle old man, he needs to give way. The same applies to pregnant women. Don't shout loudly in public transport. The child should behave calmly and not attract unnecessary attention to himself.

Social etiquette rules for children

In any public place your baby will be looked at appraisingly. You, like any parent, want your baby to cause delight and tenderness. If you are walking on the street, then teach him to give way to passers-by. Do not speak empty words, but show everything by personal example. Don't pass by the blind grandfather. Approach him with your child and take him across the roadway.

Store etiquette rules for children

Wherever you go with your child, to the theater, for a walk, to the store, to the cinema, everywhere you need to monitor his manners and explain how best to behave. If you have a shopping trip planned, try to talk to your child about your goals in advance. Tell us why you are going, what purchases you will make to avoid unnecessary hysterics. Make sure that in the store near the cash registers he does not push or drag products from the shelves. Tell him what he can do and what he can’t do.

Books about etiquette rules

If your child doesn’t like to read books, and you don’t know which information source is best to start learning from, then just start playing. In this form, any lesson is guaranteed to be successful and quick. It will be interesting for you to learn new rules with your child, and your child will be curious to repeat everything after you.

Home etiquette

At home, the child should also remember to care and love for his loved ones. Teach him to respect your space and take care of you. If mom or dad asks to do something, the baby should help and not argue. Teach him to interact and help you out.

Guest etiquette rules

Guest etiquette may seem to be the simplest, but it can be difficult for small children to follow. As a child gets older, it is easier to explain to him what is good and bad, what things are acceptable and what are not. But when the baby is very small, it can be difficult for parents. Don't despair and be upset. Just wait a little until he grows up and can fulfill all your requests.

Basic rules of etiquette for children

It cannot be said that there is some kind of collection of rules. For example, there are 10 rules and by following them, the child will be considered well-mannered and cultured. Eat important points and steps, following which, the baby will become decent and a good man. The main thing that parents should teach their child is to respect loved ones and people around them. The entire science of culture and education is built on respect.

Good manners should be taught from childhood. The article will help teach your child the rules of dining, theater, family and telephone etiquette.

The words “What a well-mannered child!” uttered by someone familiar or unfamiliar are music to a parent’s ears. They are proud of their child and themselves, as they were able to instill in him the rules of good manners. As with any other things, teach etiquette to a preschooler and junior school student needed in a playful, relaxed manner.

Types of children's etiquette

Before you start teaching your child etiquette, you need to understand and explain to him what this word means.

Etiquette is the rules of behavior in society, that is, communication with other people. These rules teach the child good manners and good manners.

Good manners are the skills of a child or an adult:

• behave when communicating with other people
• position yourself

• characteristic gait
• speech (not only the words used when speaking, but also volume and intonation)
• gestures and facial expressions
• other

Every parent wants their child to behave well. But, unfortunately, not everyone understands what this “good” means. To teach a child good manners, mom and dad themselves must be familiar with moral and moral values.

After all, the role model and the only authority for a child in early childhood and preschool age are mom and dad. These people must, first of all, themselves possess saving qualities, namely, be:

• polite
• reserved
• modest
• responsive
• rational
• sympathetic
• unobtrusive
• neat
• neat

IMPORTANT: Parents should also understand that the development of their baby is significantly influenced by his environment. In order for a child to have good manners, it is necessary to limit his contacts with those people who do not have them.

Depending on the specifics of communication, certain types of etiquette are distinguished:

• speech (rules verbal communication with others)
• dining room (rules of communication during meals)
• day off (rules of behavior in public places for recreation, for example, a theater or cinema)
• family (rules of communication between family members, including older and younger)
• telephone (today it is advisable to include the rules of communication in this type not only when talking on the phone, but also when corresponding by SMS, email, etc.)
• guest (rules of behavior when visiting)
• passenger (rules of behavior in transport)
• educational (rules of communication with educators, teachers, classmates and classmates during the educational process)
  professional
• sports
• wedding
• mourning
• military
• religious
• diplomatic
• corporate

According to age, it is important to teach a child the first eight types.

Teaching etiquette to children 4, 5, 6 years old and schoolchildren

When a child of 4, 5, 6 years old or school age has before his eyes an example of parents, relatives and friends who have good manners and know how to behave, this is wonderful. The baby will understand that this is how it should be, he will take an example from the people around him.

In parallel with this, etiquette training should occur purposefully.

1. It is necessary to begin teaching a child the rules of behavior as early as one year old, because it is at this time that he first “separates” from his mother and begins to behave. active life– walk independently and try to communicate with other children. At this age, parents can control the child’s behavior using intonation, facial expression and gestures, words “can” or “can’t”, praise and blame (which, again, are expressed by voice intonation)
2. At about two years old, the baby should already have certain skills in communicating with people and the makings of good manners, because at this age, most likely, he will go to school. kindergarten. His socialization will begin
3. At 4-6 years old, in preschool age, a child should already consciously, purposefully and systematically learn the rules of good manners and communication. His parents and teachers act as teachers. preschool. The child must understand that good manners and good manners are his helpers in making new friends, communicating with peers and adults. A preschooler learns etiquette through play
4. At school, demands on the child increase. He is already independent and conscious. His academic success largely depends on his ability to behave and communicate. good attitude to him from teachers, authority among classmates. The child already knows how to read, he needs to be offered children's books on etiquette

IMPORTANT: The rules of good manners need to be reinforced. A child needs to communicate with children in order to be able to behave in their team. Parents should also organize trips for the child to the circus, theater, exhibitions, cafes, etc.

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Etiquette for children at the table

As surprising as it may seem, a baby’s training in table etiquette begins before the age of one, with the introduction of complementary foods or from the moment the baby is given a spoon so that he can try to eat on his own.

Even then the baby should learn that:

• eat in strictly designated places - in the kitchen or dining room
• For food use special items - dishes and cutlery
• food is not a game
• you need to eat carefully

IMPORTANT: Even before one year of age, you need to offer your child a napkin and show him that he needs to wipe his mouth with it while eating.

1. Use the correct cutlery. You need to start with the basics: the first thing is eaten from a deep plate, the second from a shallow one; the fork is held in the left hand, and the knife in the right (unless, of course, the baby is left-handed), etc. Later, you need to explain to your child the rules for using more complex cutlery, for example, a cocotte fork or a fish knife. A special diagram will help your child master table setting - a picture, as in the photo
2. Sit upright, with a straight back. To learn this rule, it is necessary that the child has a dining chair that matches his height.
3. Don't talk or play around. It’s not a sin to remember the phrase “When I eat, I’m deaf and dumb”, come up with a game that would illustrate how ugly it is when someone indulges at the table
4. You need to eat carefully, do not smear food on the plate
5. Divide the pieces into larger pieces to avoid stuffing your mouth.
6. Wipe your mouth with a napkin
7. Do not reach across the table for some dish, but ask to pass it
8. Don't put your elbows on the table
9. Do not bring toys to the table
10. Show concern for others
11. Say polite words when starting a meal (“Bon appetit!”) and finishing it (“Thank you!”)

IMPORTANT: When teaching a child table etiquette, parents should not overdo it - sometimes teaching and criticism on their part look more impolite than pampering on the part of the child

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Etiquette for children visiting

When a child comes to visit adults, acquaintances of his parents, or children, his friends, he passes a kind of exam for good manners. He will pass it successfully if he knows that:

1. You need to visit only by invitation. An unexpected visit is unlikely to be pleasant for the owners
2. Ringing or knocking on doors should be done intermittently, twice at most.
3. It’s impolite to come to visit empty-handed; you need to have at least a symbolic gift with you
4. The first thing a guest should do is say hello
5. As a guest, you need to behave with restraint and calm. You cannot touch things without asking, especially climb into closets or open drawers. You can't run and make noise
6. You should not make negative comments about the owners’ home and its furnishings, even if it is not very clean or smells unpleasant.
7. If you want to look at something from the furnishings of the house (souvenir, photo, toy, etc.), you need to ask permission from the owners
8. When leaving home, you need to thank your hosts for the warm welcome and a good time.

Going to visit is a test of politeness for a child.

IMPORTANT: You need to explain to your child that you need to leave home from guests immediately when the parents ask. Even if playing away is very interesting, the baby should not whine, be capricious, or ask to stay a little longer. A visit that is too long can be tiring for the hosts

Etiquette for children's behavior on the street

While on the street, the child is in the company of other people, unless, of course, it is a walk somewhere in the forest. He should not cause them discomfort with his behavior.

Parents should explain to the child that:

1. You need to walk on the right side of the sidewalk. Then you will be able to avoid collisions with those who come towards you
2. You can't litter. There are bins for candy covers, cores, and other garbage.
3. You cannot point your finger at passers-by
4. You cannot stop in the middle of the sidewalk, blocking the path of those walking behind you. If the lace comes undone, you need to step aside and tie it there.
5. You have to follow the rules traffic. It's a safety issue
6. You need to say hello to people you know
7. Never talk or leave with strangers
8. It's better not to eat on the go. To nibble an apple or enjoy ice cream, it is better to sit on a bench

IMPORTANT: From a young age you can teach a boy to help his mother carry shopping. Then the chance that he will grow up gallant will increase

Etiquette for children's behavior in public places. Etiquette for children's behavior in the theater

Today, parents have the opportunity to “take their child out into the world” - to visit public places with him:

• children's playrooms
• amusement parks
• zoos
• theaters
• museums
• Exhibitions

Looking at such a picture, the child must say how he can and cannot behave in the theater.

To prevent such a pastime from turning into a nightmare due to the child’s terrible behavior, parents must explain to him what is possible and what is not.
So, in the theater:

1. You need to arrive to the show on time. Appearing in the auditorium after the third bell is disrespectful to the actors and discomfort for other spectators
2. Outerwear must be left in the wardrobe
3. Before the performance you need to go to the toilet so that you don’t have to go there later during the performance
4. If you have to get to your seat through chairs on which people are sitting, you need to go facing them
5. If someone needs to pass a child to his place, he must stand up and let that person pass
6. You must only occupy the seat indicated on the ticket.
7. You are not allowed to eat or drink during the performance; this can be done at the buffet during the break.
8. You are not allowed to talk during the performance
9. No jostling in the queue for the toilet, buffet or cloakroom

IMPORTANT: Modern important rule: If a child has a mobile phone, it is better to turn it off during the performance. Talking on the phone in the theater is a manifestation of extreme impoliteness

VIDEO: ABC of etiquette. in the theatre.

Speech etiquette for children. Child communication etiquette

Knowing the rules of speech etiquette is the key to a child’s successful communication with the adults and children around him. It includes:

• acquaintance
• greetings
• attracting and maintaining the attention of the interlocutor
• ability to ask
• ability to refuse
• ability to apologize
• ability to sympathize, show participation
• congratulations
• parting
• Gratitude

A child’s beautiful, correct and polite speech is his dignity.

When communicating, a preschool child should already:

In the form of short and rhythmic rhymes, it will be easier for children to learn the rules of good manners.
In addition to the actual rules of rhyming etiquette:

• train a child's memory
• train a child's speech
• expand a child's vocabulary

Here are some examples of interesting poems:

Etiquette for children's behavior in the family

Gone are the days when moms and dads were addressed as “you.” Today family communication is freer. However, the child should know that:

• You need to communicate with adults politely and with respect
• You can’t argue with your parents and grandparents
• When entering an adult's room, you need to knock
• You can't tell your parents about your brother or sister

IMPORTANT: In turn, parents must treat their children politely, take into account their wishes and interests, and never forget that, although they are small, they are individuals.

Children's behavior etiquette at school

When baby is coming in the first grade, it begins completely for him new life. Now he has a completely new function: he is a student. Parents at home and teachers at school should explain to him the rules of behavior at school.

Here are some of them:

1. You can't be late for school. You must arrive 10-15 minutes before class starts
2. You must have replacement shoes with you
3. You must sit in your seat in class
4. You must have with you all the necessary equipment for work.
5. You are not allowed to talk during class; there is a recess to communicate with children.
6. Doing your homework is a must
7. You need to show respect to the teacher
8. You cannot leave the classroom until the end of the lesson.
9. You can only miss classes if you are sick.
10. If the teacher enters the class, you need to greet him standing
11. If you want to go to the toilet during class, you need to raise your hand and ask permission to leave the class for a while.
12. During recess, do not shout, do not run through the corridors, do not push or fight
13. Other

IMPORTANT: Many schools today have their own rules. I must tell you about them classroom teacher. Sometimes such rules are published in brochures and distributed to all students in the class.

VIDEO: Rules of behavior at school

Telephone etiquette for children

Almost every modern first-grader has a mobile phone. The child needs to be taught how to speak and write SMS correctly.

• a telephone conversation should begin with a greeting
• When communicating on the phone, all rules of speech etiquette are observed.
• messages, even if they are addressed to a friend, are written correctly, only acceptable abbreviations are used in them
• at school, clinic, public places (theater, planetarium, cinema, etc.), talking on the phone is unacceptable
• the promise to call back must be kept
• You cannot answer another person’s phone unless they themselves have asked for it.

Etiquette games for children. Competitions, quizzes for children on etiquette

Games will help children learn and reinforce the rules of good manners.

IMPORTANT: Ready-made scripts Parents can find games in special books or on the Internet. If you use your imagination, you can come up with them yourself. The main thing is that the game is purposeful

1. Game "Tea Party at Malvina's". The game is based on the famous children's fairy tale "Pinocchio". Several children or a child with toys can play the game. Her friends come to visit Malvina. They show politeness by greeting the hostess and asking how she is doing. Pinocchio alone behaves impolitely, speaks loudly, and interrupts others. When the tea party begins, he eats the jam with his hands, sips from the cup, and reaches across the table for a piece of cake. The task of Malvina and her guests is to explain to Pinocchio that he is behaving incorrectly and talk about the rules of good manners when visiting and at the table.
2. Game “My phone rang.” The child's phone rings in pretend. He must answer the call politely: greet the caller, talk to him, then say goodbye. Afterwards everything happens the other way around
3. Competition "Right and Wrong". It is carried out after the child has learned the basics of etiquette. Can be group. The child is given a bell or flag. An adult reads situations. If in any of them the rules of good manners are violated, the child must raise a flag above his head or ring a bell, name what was wrong in the situation, what should have been done in reality. For example: “Masha was eating a sandwich in the theater during the performance and talking on the phone with her friend.” Masha did the wrong thing. In the theater you can only eat at the buffet during intermission; you cannot talk on the phone during the performance

Etiquette: talking with children

Conversation in pedagogy means purposeful communication. She happens to be effective method nurturing certain qualities in a child of senior preschool or school age, not earlier.
A conversation on etiquette with the aim of explaining the rules of good manners in a given situation:

• shouldn't be long
• shouldn't be monotonous
• should be interactive
• should be illustrated with cards, posters, educational films, cartoons, etc.

Conversations on etiquette - element educational work At school.

Typically, such conversations are conducted by teachers with groups of children in a kindergarten or school.

Books on etiquette for children. Tales about etiquette for children

In any children's store You can buy books on etiquette for children. These can be instructive tales in prose and poetry or something similar to a set of rules. Choose good book To help your baby easily learn how to behave, the following tips will help:

1. The book must be appropriate for the child's age. If it is intended for a preschool child, it is better that it is not too long a poetic tale with some interesting character
2. The book should have thematic illustrations, then the child will better understand the information in it
3. There are books on any one type of etiquette or on the rules of behavior in a certain situation (in the theater, transport, on the playground). Such books are good because they do not oversaturate the child with information and are better absorbed
4. If a child already knows how to read, the book is intended for him, and not for reading by parents, it should be written in a simple and understandable language for the child, the font in it should be large

IMPORTANT: There are very interesting books- encyclopedias for boys and girls. These must have an etiquette section.

Lessons on politeness and etiquette: cartoon for children

It just so happens that modern children cannot imagine their lives without cartoons. Why not combine business with pleasure and play a cartoon teaching your child etiquette?

VIDEO: Smeshariki Nyusha Etiquette and politeness

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VIDEO: Lessons for children. Etiquette, politeness

The article talks about what types of etiquette rules exist, as well as what etiquette rules children should know from a very early age.

Etiquette is usually called the norms and rules of behavior in a certain place and in certain situations. It is very important to teach a child these rules, then parents will not have to feel embarrassed for their child, but on the contrary, and more than once they will have to hear words of gratitude for the good manners of the person they raised.

Types of children's etiquette

Exists a large number of types of etiquette. However, there are slightly fewer types of etiquette for children than for adults, these include:

• Day off (this type of etiquette includes rules of behavior in public places, such as cinema, theater, museum, etc.)
• Guest (norms of behavior when visiting)

IMPORTANT: Only those parents who themselves follow the rules of etiquette can instill good manners in a child and turn him into a well-mannered person. After all, absolutely all children learn, first of all, from the personal examples of adults.

• Passenger (rules of behavior in public transport)
• Speech (rules of verbal communication)
• Family (rules of communication in the family)

IMPORTANT: In addition to parents, his environment is also a role model for a child, so you should pay attention to who your child communicates with.

• Dining room (table rules)
• Telephone (rules for communicating by telephone, including through messages and emails)
• Educational (rules of behavior in institutions preschool education, schools, etc.)

By the way, for adults, in addition to the above types of etiquette, there are also the following:

• Military
• Diplomatic
• Corporate
• Professional
• Religious
• Wedding
• Sports
• Mourning

At what age should you start learning etiquette?

Many parents may be surprised to learn that etiquette rules need to be taught to their child from birth.

• While still very young, you can easily begin to teach good manners with your eyes, intonation, and certain phrases. For example, you should wish the baby Bon appetit, thank him if he handed you a rattle, etc.

IMPORTANT: Already at a very early age, it is worth praising the child for good manners, and also using the intonation of his voice to show when he is not doing exactly the right thing.

• From two to four years of age, parents should begin actively teaching their child the rules of etiquette. You should tell him what to do and what not to do, motivate the child and not forget about personal example

IMPORTANT: At this age it is worth using playful forms of teaching a child etiquette. You can already stage situations, use story games, do not forget about funny poems and fairy tales on the topic of etiquette.

• From four to six years old, a child must realize the need to learn good manners - this will help him in communicating with peers and with adults. An important role in education is given not only to parents, but also to teachers of preschool institutions
• Etiquette training is also carried out in schools, but by this age the child should already have certain knowledge in this matter

Children's politeness etiquette: lessons

Children should be taught the rules of etiquette on an ongoing basis, using play forms, reminders, examples, etc. - this must be a continuous process. Constantly speaking and demonstrating good behavior by adults will definitely be crowned with success.

As for teaching politeness to children in kindergartens and schools, there are specially designed programs and lessons for teachers. Necessary materials and video tutorials are not difficult to find on the Internet.

Table etiquette for children and schoolchildren: rules

Teaching your child how to behave at the table should start from a very early age. While still very young, the child must understand that food should be eaten in a strictly designated place - in the dining room, in the kitchen.

Table etiquette rules that should be taught to very young children also include the following:

• For eating, special cutlery should be used, food should be placed on plates
• When eating, you should use a napkin as needed.

In the future, as he grows up, the child must remember the following rules of etiquette at the table:

• You should sit down at the table and start eating with everyone else
• At the beginning of the meal, you should wish everyone present at the table a bon appetit.
• You should eat food in silence; it is forbidden to indulge at the table
• You should eat with your mouth closed
• At the table it is forbidden to slurp, crunch loudly, or remove food stuck in the teeth with your fingers.
• Large pieces of food should be divided into smaller pieces using cutlery - do not stuff your mouth full of food
• It is forbidden to lick the plate, even if it was very tasty
• It is forbidden to place your elbows on the table
• If the desired dish is located at a distance from the child, then he should ask that the dish be passed to him - it is forbidden to reach across the entire table
• At the end of the meal you should say “Thank you!”

Video: Presentation Etiquette and table manners

Etiquette for children visiting

It is very important to teach your child how to receive guests at home and how to behave when visiting them. To do this, you need to remember just a few simple rules:

• Do not come to visit without an invitation, but, in case of urgent need, inform the hosts yourself about your visit. Unexpected guests almost always cause anxiety and trouble to the owners
• Do not persistently ring or knock on the door - no more than twice
• When going on a visit, you should definitely take a gift or a gift with you - going on a visit without a gift is impolite
• When visiting, you should behave calmly and discreetly, it is forbidden to make noise and run around
• It is prohibited to touch the owners’ things without permission, look into locked rooms, open cabinets, etc.
• You can’t give a bad assessment to the owners’ house, including the existing mess, unpleasant smell etc.
• If you are invited to the table, you should eat carefully
• Don't stay away for long
• Before leaving, be sure to thank the hosts for the warm welcome and refreshments.
• Guests should be invited in advance
• It is mandatory to pay attention to everyone invited
• Before leaving, guests should thank them for their visit.

Etiquette for children's behavior in public places

So that parents do not have to blush because of the child’s limping behavior outside the walls of the apartment, while still at home they should tell him about the rules of behavior in public places.

I would like to pay special attention to the rules of etiquette in public transport:

• Before entering the transport, you should let everyone exiting it pass
• Men and boys should let women and girls go ahead of them, and only then enter public transport
• It is prohibited to push passengers with your elbows when moving deeper into the cabin in order to take up an empty seat.
• You should give way to the elderly, disabled people, pregnant women and passengers with children.
• When entering a vehicle, you should remove your backpacks and backpacks from your shoulders so as not to disturb other passengers.
• Don't crowd at the entrance if you don't need to get off at the next stop.
• It is prohibited to eat or shake off dirt, raindrops, or snow from clothes in public transport.
• It is prohibited to run, talk loudly, or dirty the seats inside the vehicle.
• It is prohibited to closely look at other passengers in the cabin of public transport.
• Animals should be transported in special bags or cages, and dogs should be muzzled.
• In transport, you should prepare to leave in advance
• On the street, parked vehicles should be walked around from behind, only trams - from the front

Etiquette for children's behavior on the street

On the street, as well as at home, as well as at a party, certain standards of behavior should be observed. Parents should pay a lot of attention to ensure that their child behaves well outside.

The child must clearly understand that:

• Garbage should be in the trash can, not on the ground
• Walking on lawns is prohibited
• It is forbidden to make noise, run, or hurt others
• You can’t point fingers at people or point out their shortcomings.
• To avoid collisions with passersby, when walking on the sidewalk, you should stick to the right side
• If you stop, you should step aside so as not to disturb passers-by
• It is forbidden to eat while walking, it is better to stop or sit on a bench
• It is worth remembering the rules of the road
• You cannot leave the place where your parents asked you to wait.
• You cannot give your address and phone number to strangers.
• You can't go anywhere with strangers

Etiquette for children's behavior in the theater

It’s so good when a child has the opportunity to develop culturally. Therefore, parents should pay attention to this issue and at least occasionally take their child to theaters, cinemas, museums, exhibitions, etc.

At the same time, parents should take care in advance to teach their child good manners. For example, in the theater:

• You should look neat, it is unacceptable to come in dirty or torn clothes
• You should arrive early so that you have time to get yourself in order and put your outerwear in the cloakroom
• It is necessary to take a seat, especially if it is located in the middle of a row, in advance, so that you do not have to disturb other spectators later
• You should only move along the row to your seat facing those sitting, apologizing for the inconvenience. Don't forget about words of gratitude
• During the performance it is forbidden to make noise, share impressions, or talk on the phone - this can be done during intermission
• It is forbidden to eat or drink during the performance
• During the performance, you should sit quietly so as not to disturb those sitting behind you.

Video: Rules of behavior in the theater

Etiquette for communicating children with people

There are also rules for communicating with people that absolutely everyone should follow.

Younger schoolchildren, like preschoolers, must learn the rules of communication with people; for this, if necessary, they should be reminded of the rules of speech etiquette set out in the section above and reinforce them.

Etiquette rules for children's behavior at school

There are also certain rules of conduct at school. These include the following:

• Respect the teacher
• You should arrive at school 10-15 minutes before classes start
• You should come to school prepared - do all your homework, don’t forget your books and notebooks, don’t forget your sports uniform
• It is prohibited to leave school on your own during classes.
• During class, if you need to go out, you should raise your hand and ask the teacher for permission.
• It is permissible to skip classes only for a good reason
• You should turn off your cell phone during class.
• At the beginning of the lesson you should greet the teacher standing
• If you have a question or want to answer a question, you should raise your hand and wait for the teacher to pay attention to you
• Keep your workplace tidy
• Eating is prohibited during class
• The bell at the end of the lesson is for the teacher. You have to wait until the teacher finishes
• During recess it is forbidden to run, shout, swear, fight - disrupt order in school

Most schools have their own additional rules, which must be strictly followed. These rules can be found directly at the school.

Etiquette for children's behavior in the family

Rules of etiquette should be observed everywhere, and family is no exception. Even the smallest baby should know:

• With parents, grandparents, etc. should communicate respectfully and politely
• You can’t argue with relatives or quarrel with them
• When entering your parents' room, you should knock
• It is forbidden to swear, fight with brothers and sisters, or snitch on them
• You should adhere to all the rules and traditions established directly in the family

IMPORTANT: It is best to teach a child the rules of behavior in the family by personal example.

Telephone etiquette for children

Parents should explain to their child that during a telephone conversation they should use all the rules of speech etiquette. Along with these rules, telephone etiquette also includes the following:

• It is necessary to limit telephone calls unnecessarily from 21.00 pm to 08.00 am, and on weekends from 21.00 pm to 10.00 am
• A telephone conversation should begin with a greeting, and at the end of the conversation you should definitely say goodbye
• In places where etiquette does not allow talking on the phone, you should turn it off
• If you told someone that you will call back, then you should definitely do so.
• Etiquette rules prohibit answering someone else's phone.
• If you dial the wrong number, you should apologize
• Etiquette rules do not allow talking on the phone loudly in public places
• It is forbidden to play around with your phone
• All messages must be written correctly

Teaching Etiquette: Talking to Children

You can teach etiquette to children, in addition to playful forms, in the form of targeted communication. There is a huge amount of materials and lessons that will help both parents and teachers correctly structure the conversation and easily convey the necessary information to children.

It is worth remembering that the conversation should be:

• Not tiring for children, and therefore not long lasting
• Emotionally colored, not monotonous - children should be interested
• Two-way - children should actively participate in the conversation
• Vivid and memorable - you should use a variety of illustrative examples in the form of pictures, audio materials, video materials

IMPORTANT: Teaching the rules of etiquette in the form of a conversation is best used for children of older preschool age and schoolchildren.

Etiquette games for children. Competitions, quizzes for children on etiquette

Both parents and teachers can easily find detailed scenarios for games, competitions and quizzes in bookstores, libraries, the Internet, etc.

Etiquette books for children

In all bookstores, as well as on the Internet, you can find wide choose literature on etiquette for children. These can be both books as a guide for adults, and books to be read directly by older children.

Here is a list of just some of them:

• Rules of conduct for well-mannered children. Galina Shalaeva
• The ABC of Politeness. Lyudmila Vasilyeva-Gangnus
• Polite words. Olga Korneeva
• Bon appetit! Politeness lessons. For children from 1 year. Sergey Savushkin
• Etiquette for children of different ages. Andrey Usachev
• I'm growing cultured. For children 4-5 years old. Svetlana Pyatak, Natalya Tsarikova
• Lessons of Politeness and Kindness. A manual on children's etiquette for kindergarten and school teachers early development. Elena Barinova
• ABC of etiquette for kids. 33 rules of good manners. Natalia Ivanova
• Etiquette for the future lady. Antonina Eliseeva
• Sociable fairy tales. Conversations with children about politeness and communication culture. Tatiana Shorygina
• 1000 etiquette lessons for the smartest kids. Valentina Dmitrieva
• Tips from the politeness fairy. Victor Kudlachev, Irina Fomenkova
• We learn to be exemplary. Vladimir Stepanov
• The ABC of Politeness. Natalia Chub

Tales about etiquette for children

In the same bookstores you can also find fairy tales that are designed to teach children good manners.

Poems about children's etiquette rules

I say to a friend: “Hello!”
And he responded: “Great!”
There's nothing wrong here
Both words apply.

The eldest, if we meet him,
The first “Hello!” We are speaking.

The clothes are in order - everything is clean, tidy -
It is pleasant to communicate with such a person.
And the dirty, shaggy, ragged look -
He tells his friends to stay away.

"Hello!" - we talk when we meet
To all friends, acquaintances and relatives.
And when we leave: “Goodbye!” —
Let the parting be short.

Talk rudely
mockingly teasing -
This is bad, ugly!
I need to apologize.

Mom has a lot to do around the house,
Dad is busy day after day.
And we are ready to help our families
Let's put the games aside for later.

If grandma gets tired -
Let her rest.
Well, the grandson won’t make noise,
There will be silence in the house.

For help and support
Thank you always.
And having received a gift,
"Thank you!" we talk.

Adults are talking.
Important conversation.
They should not be disturbed -
This is the agreement.

There's trouble in our yard -
A sneak has appeared.
We don't offend her
We just don't play with her.

There are such kids -
They praise themselves wholeheartedly.
They usually say this:
“It’s indecent to be a braggart!
Be good not just in words,
And in actions and deeds."

Laugh at friends
Discuss them behind your back
Only evil people can.
There is no need to offend people!

On the bus to the old lady
Give up your place.
Sensitivity and attention
Show it to your elders.

Quietly we enter the transport,
We don’t run around here, we don’t litter.
We don’t shout and we don’t sing -
We behave well!

Let someone's thing you like -
Be able to contain your desires.
Forget it, or contact the owner,
But don’t you dare take someone else’s property secretly!

In public transport
Be calm, be quiet.
Behave politely -
Respect others.

Don't lie and slander,
When you yourself are responsible.
Decide to admit your guilt -
Children must be honest!

Lessons on politeness and etiquette: cartoon for children

Exists huge selection cartoons, both Soviet and modern, that can teach a child politeness, that clearly demonstrate the rules of etiquette. Separate series about politeness and the rules of etiquette can be found among such modern cartoons as:

• Malyshariki
• Smeshariki
• Luntik
• Lessons from Aunt Owl

Pay attention to your child, teach him the rules of etiquette, and then you will be able to raise a good person.

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Etiquette is generally accepted norms and rules of behavior for people in society. And children, like adults, should know how to behave correctly. Therefore, mothers, fathers, grandmothers, grandfathers, aunts, uncles, older brothers and sisters should help kids learn etiquette.

What are the rules of etiquette for children? These are the rules of behavior, knowing which and most importantly, following them, you will not find yourself in an uncomfortable situation, and you will look well-mannered and polite.

What is etiquette?

What is etiquette -
We should know from childhood.
These are the norms of behavior:

How to go to a birthday party?
How to meet?
As it is?
How to call?
How to get up?
How to sit down?
How to greet an adult?
There are many different questions.
And it gives the answer
This is the same etiquette.
(A. Usachev)

Today in a civilized society one cannot do without the application of the rules of etiquette. Therefore, children must be taught from birth and demonstrated by personal example. This is very important, because if the rules of good manners are not followed in the family, then it will be impossible to teach the child.

What is the importance of children's etiquette?

The foundations of human behavior, habits, and character traits are laid in childhood. Therefore, his education, success, career and many other important factors depend on the knowledge that a child received in childhood. And etiquette opens the door to society. A culture of behavior and communication helps the child to be heard and understood in the future. It's a pleasure to deal with a well-mannered child. If he knows and follows the rules of etiquette, he begins to understand what conscience, ethics, morality, and responsibility are.

I think everyone knows that children learn best through play, so it is recommended to use role-playing games. Using dolls, play out situations when you visited the theater, guests came to you, etc.

Games for learning etiquette

The most simple methods teaching children is watching, reading, poetry, humming songs, using board games according to etiquette. You can look at pictures (cards) depicting bad and good behavior.

In addition, in order for the child to understand how to behave in a particular institution, you need to visit them with him: theaters, cafes, various holidays.

Basic Etiquette

Children will not be able to follow all the rules of behavior that adults must follow, but there are basic ones that should not be forgotten.

The very first rule of good manners is respect for all people, both adults and children. All the others flow smoothly from this rule, because, at their core, the rules of etiquette are the rules of respectful attitude towards others.

Table etiquette

What do we have to do:

Be sure to wash your hands before eating.
Sit down at the table and start eating with everyone.
Eat carefully.
Eat in silence.
Don't put your elbows on the table.
Do not pick at the plate with your hands.
You can't slurp.
After eating, wipe your lips with a napkin.
Thank adults for food.

What not to do:

Play with food.
Stuff your mouth full.
Hurry.
Eating from someone else's plate.
Use other people's spoons and forks in food.
Talk with your mouth full
Indulge while eating.

Rules of good manners for children in communication

When meeting people you know, you need to say hello, and when parting, you need to say goodbye.
If necessary, use “magic words”: “please”, “thank you”, “sorry”, “bon appetit”.
Address adults by first name and patronymic and by “you”.
You can communicate with peers on a first-name basis.
You cannot offend, humiliate other children, or call them names.
You should not be offended, complain, or snitch.

Etiquette for children visiting

What do we have to do:

Be sure to say hello to the owners of the house.
Behave calmly.
Before leaving, thank you for your hospitality.
When leaving, say goodbye.

What not to do:

Come to visit without an invitation.
Touching and taking other people's things without permission.
Staying up late at a party.
Ask for tea, treats, lunch.
Make noise and run.

Etiquette rules for children in public places

What do we have to do:

In transport you should give up your seat to elders.
Before entering a store or transport, you first need to provide access to those leaving.
It is necessary to maintain cleanliness indoors and outdoors.

What not to do:

You can't shout loudly or sing songs.
You can't go into public transport with food or drinks.
You can't point fingers.
When speaking, do not interrupt other people.

An ill-mannered, rude child will never have authority among his peers, and adults will not set him up as an example. And this is important for personal development. Therefore, you need to follow the rules of good manners constantly and everywhere.