How a man in love reveals himself. The main signs of a man's true love

After my article about the “hunter-prey” myth, it became clear to me from the reactions of girls that most simply do not know the truth about how men fall in love.

Interestingly, comments from women who are already married are strikingly different from messages from girls who just can’t find a husband.

Married ladies agree with me that if you leave all the work to a man, you are unlikely to get married.
Unmarried people shout loudly that under no circumstances should you do anything yourself, otherwise the representatives of the stronger sex will be “uninterested” and they will not “appreciate” her.

My dears, a man’s feeling that his girlfriend is the best in the world and he never wants to lose her does not at all come from the torment that he had to endure in order to “win” her. This feeling comes from lightness and joy when he is next to her. Hard work is associated with the concept of “a weight off my shoulders,” and not at all with the joyful realization of “I’m terribly lucky.” A man falls in love because he enjoys being with you, not hard.

In addition, by bullying a fan during the courtship stage, you give him the moral right to mock you when he “conquers” you. Any action gives rise to reaction.

How do men fall in love?

Men and women fall in love in different ways and at different speeds. By following the “hunter” pattern, you, on the contrary, reduce your chances of attracting a partner for a long time. Only by ceasing to be a “prey” do you have a chance at a serious relationship. To do this, you need to understand how men fall in love.

Stage 1: I like you

For men it all starts with physical attractiveness. If a woman can still fall in love with a guy she is not physically attracted to because she “respects” him, it is completely impossible for a man.

Recently an experiment was conducted in America: a cute guy and a girl staged great photo on a dating site, but went on a date wearing special makeup and a suit that made it look like they were seriously overweight.

All the guys who came on a date with a suddenly “fat” (compared to her photo on the site) girl almost immediately asked a question about her weight and left.
The girls, who discovered a plumper guy, allowed him to kiss them on the cheek and hug them when they met and said goodbye, and spent the entire date with him, that is, they treated him much more gently.

After a divorce, many Western women who have gained weight begin to exercise and lose weight, after which they quickly find a new partner. For ladies, this is elementary: if you are slim and don’t “punch men’s brains,” you can easily find a partner.

So remember: men are initially attracted to your physical body. If you think that a guy approached you because he likes your character, you are cruelly deceiving yourself.

What exactly a man likes about your appearance may vary. There are those who adore large or, conversely, small breasts, thin ankles, long fingers or long straight (or curly) hair. Some people like steep hips, while others like narrow hips. Every man has his own “type” that he likes. Many will not even be able to say what exactly attracts them, but this feature still exists.

A man sees his “type” in a woman and begins to feel that “he likes her.” But so far this guy hasn't fallen in love at all.

Stage 2: Exploration

Most men are constantly attracted to several women, they “like” several girls. So they do some “scouting” to see who will reciprocate his initial advances. That is, at any time, they are trying to conduct reconnaissance regarding several women. Only seeing reciprocal interest does the guy begin to concentrate his efforts on one girl.

These advances are very minimal, it's not even flirting or courtship. A man just needs to understand that if he starts courting you, something might happen. At this stage, even if he likes the girl, he still doesn’t care whether she rejects him or accepts his advances. If she rejects him, he will have no problem courting someone else. Naturally, there are exceptions (worried people who go crazy), but most normal men feel this way.

Stage 3. Stalking

This is what you girls love so much, right? The man is “running” after you.

If a woman gives a guy even the weakest positive signal in response to his advances (someone needs a stronger signal), he will begin to pursue. Sometimes a man may even imagine a positive answer.

A guy who thinks that a girl likes him begins to act, trying to attract her attention. At this stage, the man is trying to make you notice him and understand that he likes you. Some women already fall in love by this point, seeing the attention of a man. If you give him a positive response (for example, agreeing to a date or replying to a message), the transition to the next stage will occur.

Stage 4: Making an impression

At this stage, many women are already beginning to fall in love, but the man has not even thought about his feelings. For now, he just wants to impress you, trying to show that he is a worthwhile partner. A man plans dates, gives you gifts, and generally tries to make you happy. If you haven’t “given up” yet, you will usually do so at this stage.

Stage 5: Winning Your Love

After all his investment, a man wants you to love him now. Getting your love is an achievement for him. Instead of falling in love with you, he only cares about whether he succeeded in making you fall in love with him. A man may even demonstrate his ability to commit to a serious relationship so you can see that he has the potential to be a great long-term partner. You're probably seriously in love already, but he's not yet.

Stage 6: Decision

If a man gets to this stage, which doesn't always happen, it means you've already made your feelings towards him clear and he knows you love him and want a serious relationship. What you don't know is that for your "hunter", this was all just a pregame to get proof for himself that he is the man you are looking for.

In addition, there are small problems:

Until now, your admirer has not been himself. Therefore, the guy you fell in love with is not at all who he really is.
He never questioned whether you were right for him in the long run. Everything that happened before at this moment, happened purely based on his physical attraction.

It is at this point in the relationship that the man who “conquered” you begins to wonder whether he needs this relationship at all. He begins to look at your human qualities and what, in general, you are able to offer in this department.

Your lover begins to ask himself:

Do I love her?
Do I want to be with her?
Will I be happy with her?
Is this the kind of woman I really want?

What's interesting is that if you believe in the myth of the hunter, then most likely you haven't been yourself all this time either! You also pretended diligently. Therefore, it is quite possible that you behaved in such a way that your partner would not answer yes to all of these questions.

It is at this stage that a young man may decide to end the relationship “for no reason at all” or for a reason that seems fictitious to you (quite possibly, it is). Men who easily follow their impulse to “conquer” are easily ready to abandon a woman at this stage, unless she is his ideal in everything. Why not? He knows that he is capable of conquering a woman.

Stage 7: Love

If a man, after analyzing your relationship and his feelings, makes a positive decision, he is ready to fall in love with you and surrender to his feelings. The next 2-3 months will be wonderful and wonderful. You will notice that your partner cares about you and truly loves you. That's it, your man has fallen in love.

Falling in love... Finally, you have met the very man you dreamed of. You met quite recently and still cannot understand whether a serious relationship can arise between you, or if this is just a passerby who will leave only light memories. Is it possible to determine for sure how interested he is in continuing a relationship with you? Perhaps he fell in love with you at first sight, or perhaps he just decided to pass the time next to a pretty girl, and will leave your life without regrets? I would like to know... not just I would like, but it is very important to know this!

After all, you don’t want to end up with nothing, or rather, with broken hearted, when you open up to a man like a morning flower, he plucks you and... immediately forgets you. In order not to tear the hair on our chests out of despair later, let’s not be fools, first we’ll make sure that he’s in love, and then we’ll see how much we can open up to him and whether it’s even worth giving in to his hands ahead of time.

By the way, in addition to love and lust, there is another level of relationship between a man and a woman - friendship. Maybe you interested your new acquaintance, but not as a woman, but as an interesting person. This is not the worst option, but quite acceptable, since alliances in which there are common interests produce quite strong families. It’s just that in this case you will have to try a little for friendship to grow into love. But this is no more complicated than a banal physiological passion, which quickly arises in a man and passes just as quickly if the girl was unable to awaken in him an interest of a higher order. Although here we must also take into account that love for a man does not mean the same thing as for a girl.

12 signs that a man is in love

1. When he sees you he smiles. In general, a man may be embarrassed to openly express his feelings, especially in front of strangers. Therefore, it may not be an open wide smile, but a “smile with the eyes”, when when you appear, the expression on his face changes - it becomes kinder, and a sparkle appears in his eyes.

2. You constantly catch his eye on you. A man in love cannot look enough at his beloved, “he eats her with his eyes.” He wants to admire every feature of his beloved face, every curve of the body. He may pretend to look away, but his gaze returns to you again and again, as if you are a magnet and he is a compass needle.

3. He listens to you as if the fate of all humanity depends on your every word.. By the way, don’t flatter yourself, it’s quite possible that he ignores your words, enjoying your voice.

4. Instead of the words “I” and “you”, he often uses “we”. For example, he asks not “When will I see you?”, but “When will we meet again?” Not “I want to watch this movie,” but “Let’s watch this movie.”

5. He doesn't see you the way you see yourself in the mirror.. You've probably heard the expression that lovers wear “rose-colored glasses.” This is true. Let's say you didn't get enough sleep and say, “I have dark circles under my eyes,” if he is in love, he may well be surprised, because he really doesn’t see them! As well as the shortcomings of your figure, and some skin problems, if any.

6. He is delicate in his statements and is afraid of offending you. For example, if you have a problem with weight, he will never say “you’re fat” or “you need to lose weight.” Most likely, he will begin to discreetly slip you books about healthy way life, articles on how to lose weight, or suggest going to the gym together.

Although there are men who, in principle, do not know what delicacy is. In this case, he may be sincerely surprised that you were offended. But if he is in love, he will try in every possible way to smooth out his mistake, for example, he will say that you are the most beautiful for him.

7. He misses you when you're apart. Maybe he tells you this every time you talk on the phone, or maybe he doesn’t. In any case, a man in love gets bored if he doesn’t see his beloved for a long time. Some will call every day, others several times a day. He will send meaningless SMS messages just to somehow maintain contact. He will count down the days and hours until you meet.

8. He worries when you feel bad. Loving man perceives the pain of his beloved woman as his own, and tries to do everything so that his beloved always feels good. If you have any troubles or are sick, the man will make every effort and find ways to fix it. He will protect you from any threat, he will help you deal with the problem and he will try to console you.

9. He's worried about you. If your date is over late in the evening, a man in love will try to take you home, and if for some reason this is impossible, he will call you a taxi and pay for your fare. If it’s frosty outside, he’ll ask: “Are you warm, girl?”

10. He brightens your life. Some cute trinkets, chocolates, flowers, air balloons, cute cards. Although, to be honest, most men don’t understand why a girl needs this and they themselves rarely realize that a man shouldn’t come to a date empty-handed. In this case, the girl should hint about it, or even say it directly, since men usually do not understand hints. If he's in love, he'll do correct conclusion and will come to every date with some kind of gift.

11. He likes to spend money on you. Of course, not right away, but as your relationship develops, gifts will become more and more expensive, from to jewelry. The price of the gift depends only on his financial situation. But the point is not the price, but whether he feels pleasure when he gives you gifts, or does it in order to get your body for temporary use. Firstly, you can see it in the eyes, and secondly, if it’s not love, but lust, the man will drag you into bed immediately after you receive an expensive gift.

12. He trusts you. “Being jealous means loving”? This is only partly true. True love without trust is impossible. But there are men who have it “in their blood.” In such cases, the man suffers greatly, and yet believes your explanations. At least, he tries his best to believe.

It was a barrel of honey if your chosen one meets all these signs of a man in love. And now - a fly in the ointment.

With the development of the Internet, the man became very literate. If earlier, based on these signs, it was possible to determine for sure that a man loves, today anyone who wants to please a woman for selfish reasons can read a similar article, or even to pretend to be in love.

Therefore, girls, be careful! If a man is too perfect, do not rush to jump into bed with him. When he really loves, he will marry you first.

Who has not heard the indignant exclamations of the older generation - what perverted times do we live in? Moreover, even residents of Western European countries note this. It’s not for nothing that the expression has become popular among the British - we live in a time when basic politeness is perceived as flirting.

When good manners are regarded as flirting, this often leads to awkward situations between people who communicate closely. Particularly frequent victims of such situations are women who consider themselves experts in male psychology, if ordinary gallantry is interpreted by them as .

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Psychology of a man in love

A woman who suspects she is in love often falls for her own delusion and becomes imbued with a tender feeling for a man.

Any glance of his is perceived as an attempt to “build bridges,” and a smile is perceived as a declaration of love, and the woman is no longer able to take a sober look at the real state of affairs.

In order not to take wishful thinking, let's figure out what the actual signs of falling in love are in a man.

A feeling that covers a person without asking his consent, which often does not listen to the voice of reason, cannot but affect the behavior of a representative of the stronger sex. Whatever he was before falling in love - decisive or shy, the life of the party or a lover of intimate comfort - he will definitely change. He can resist the new feeling with all his might, but if a man wants a woman, the signs of this condition cannot be hidden too deeply.

But is it only sexual attraction leads a man in love, signs and (according to scientific statements) are subordinated to a single goal - the spread of genetic material? Or maybe we shouldn’t consider the stronger sex exclusively as animals? Men, for all their pragmatism, are also not alien to soulfulness and spirituality, otherwise the “dispersion of genetic material” would not be so picky about a woman’s appearance, character, and, finally, intelligence.

A man does not fall in love with “just anyone,” but becomes imbued with feelings for the one who meets his concepts of personal spiritual comfort. And not every love develops into true love- as he gets closer to a woman, he either becomes convinced that his beloved is exactly the one he dreamed of, or becomes disappointed and frees his heart for a new feeling.

So, the signs of this condition will be carefully masked until he himself decides whether he can call this woman his own. But is there really no answer to the question of how to understand that a man is in love with you? Signs of a man in love, which are difficult to hide and almost impossible to control, still exist, both behavioral and non-verbal.

Signs that a man is in love with you

Let's take a look at 10 signs that a man is in love and compare them with your chosen one. Signs are signs, but there are as many characters as there are people, and what is good for one is impossible for another. Not only taste and preferences play a role here, but also upbringing, temperament, and the intellectual level of a man.

Remember what he was like before you saw in him the signs of a man falling in love with you as a woman. Take a closer look at the changes in his character.

Behavioral

Behavioral changes in character can be expressed in an unexpected change in temperament:

Falling in love often makes a shy person surprisingly decisive and active, which is surprising not only to those around him, but also to himself.
And falling in love can make a man with an open and cheerful disposition withdrawn and taciturn - this is how he tries to understand himself and his feelings.
Psychology also sees signs that a man is in love in a constant desire to take care of you - giving you a hand, picking up a handbag you dropped, helping you put on your coat, etc. Finally, just regularly take an interest in your well-being.
The behavior of a man in your absence is very revealing. If you have a trusted (reliable!) friend, ask her to keep an eye on him when you're not around. If in your absence he is bored and shows no interest in what is happening, but in your presence he bursts with energy, these are signs that the man is in love, but is hiding his feelings from you.
He is looking for any reason to talk to you, to be as close to you as possible, to look into your eyes, to “accidentally” touch, call, write SMS. If you notice this, you can regard it as signs of a man in love.

Nonverbal

In addition to obvious behavioral factors that indicate feelings, there are also non-verbal signs of falling in love in men; they are more difficult to notice, but they are almost not controlled by him.

When in the same company, watch where he looks if he manages to cheer everyone up. Any psychologist in any group of people will unmistakably identify hidden sympathies on this basis - he doesn’t care how others react to the joke, the first glance of a lover after a friendly burst of laughter will be directed only at you.
Pay attention to his hands. He clearly doesn't know what to do with them in front of you. He doesn’t find anything better than to hide them in his pocket, leaving his thumbs outside - you know, this is a man in love. The psychology of a man in love “forces” him to demonstrate such signs quite often.
If an adult man is in love with you, non-verbal signs of his feelings will appear first of all in his gaze. It will be aimed directly at your eyes, your pupils will be dilated, your eyebrows will be slightly raised, as if asking: “What about you?”
All the same hands can again reveal signs of a man in love. Non-verbal signs of desire to possess a woman are the unconscious pulling of the trouser belt with your thumbs.
Haven't you noticed that when he's nearby, he unwittingly copies you? You reach for a flower - and he is already picking it off, you are straightening your hair - and his hands immediately dig into your hair... Such “mirror” behavior is well known to psychologists and is interpreted by them as non-verbal signs of a man in love.

Taking a closer look at opposite sex, do not forget that there are concepts of politeness and good manners. If a colleague says hello and goodbye to you every day, and even politely asks how you are, this is not a sign that he is in love with you.

How to understand that a man wants a woman?

If you are interested in a serious feeling, and not a love-adventure novel, you will have to work hard to understand when he is in love and when a man just wants a woman. What signs reveal exclusively “animal feelings” in him? Is it possible at the same time?

He looks at you appraisingly. From head to toe and back. His eyes don't just look into the soul - they undress. The look of a man in love has nothing in common with such signs. A loving gaze is tender; one desiring your body is greedy.
He doesn’t give a damn about what’s going on in your soul, what you dream about, or even how you feel. He is only interested in an opportunity to show his masculine strength. Therefore, he will try to meet you in the most “close” places - a cramped elevator, subway car or trolleybus.
Of course, not everyone is so maniacally persistent. If a man wants a woman by all indications, but hides it (perhaps being afraid of his own “lust”), you, as a woman, should think about whether it is from this feeling that he will develop true love.
If a shy man wants a woman, he will be “shocked” by any of her accidental touches, even non-tactile ones; “while defending himself,” he can become deliberately rude or sarcastic, just so as not to seem like an indecisive admirer. Take a closer look at the one who is constantly making fun of you.

Yes, despite obvious physical superiority, the stronger sex can turn out to be weak and even helpless in love.

Many men treat the manifestation of their feelings almost as exhibitionism and cannot force themselves to think differently.

What to do if a man has fallen in love and wants a woman, showing non-verbal and behavioral signs, but is trying to hide it?

If you have known this person for a long time, who suddenly changed before your eyes, try to talk to him, ask what is happening to him. He will understand that you see his condition and, perhaps, will decide to tell everything.
If you have known each other not long enough to start confidential conversations, show non-verbal signs of your sympathy and encourage him (if, of course, you need it).
Don't try to be ironic about his behavior. If he hides his feelings, it means he has a reason for it, and with your jokes you will distance yourself even more from him.
Do not send friends to him to find out his attitude towards you. He will immediately “see through” you and no one knows how he will regard you. Be more patient.
You shouldn't make him jealous either. Seeing his passion in the company of other men, a lover is unlikely to take this as a signal to action. Rather, on the contrary, he will see that his beloved is frivolous and available, and this is not best qualities for woman.
If you care about a person and you see in him the signs of a man in love, give these signs the opportunity to appear the best way. Support him with your gaze, a friendly smile, encouragement of his actions, and he will become attached to you.
Let him talk about himself if he does it out of excitement when meeting you. Don't show that you are not interested, that you want entertainment, not conversation. Let him speak out. Perhaps this will give him the courage not to lose his composure in your presence.
If a man tries to hide his feelings to the point of completely ignoring you and even avoiding conversations, leave him alone. Apparently, he is not yet ready for a serious relationship with a woman, let him get ready.
What should you do if he shows all the signs of a man in love, but continues to “disguise” and persist, even despite your steps towards him? There are men for whom it is easier to love an image than a living person with all his natural manifestations and shortcomings. If he deifies you, nothing good will come of your union.
But what if he demonstratively hides his feelings, although you have clearly made it clear that you are also not indifferent to him? There can be two explanations here - either he has violations psychological nature, or he expects you to pursue him. Try not to connect your fate with him if you don’t want to spend your whole life in the company of a speed bump.

A man in love is every woman's dream. Starting a relationship when the signs of a man in love are obvious is much easier for any girl. Because her self-esteem increases, thanks to the confidence that her partner is crazy about her. In this case feminine behavior becomes more natural and relaxed, which attracts her chosen one even more. The behavior of a man in love is so obvious that there is no doubt about his feelings and intentions.

A young man in love can be recognized not only by his actions and words, but also by his characteristic gestures. Therefore, sometimes it’s enough just to take a closer look; perhaps your companion has all the signs of a headless guy in love.

Language of the body

Even if your chosen one is stingy with words, there are clear signs of falling in love that do not need verbal reinforcement. The gestures of a man in love betray him completely, no matter how hard he tries to hide his defeat.

It is impossible not to recognize the gaze of a lover; it is very intent, often unblinking. Representatives of the stronger sex in a state of love do not want to take their eyes off the object of their passion.
The expression of a man's face changes when he meets a woman, his features become softer, and a smile appears.
The constant desire for tactile contact makes it possible to distinguish a man who is not indifferent to a woman, attempts to move closer, hug, or cuddle.
Turning the feet towards the woman is not obvious, but sure sign, helping to recognize a lover.
Relaxed shoulders, a pulled back torso - an open pose, indicating a desire to look simpler and a willingness to make contact.
It is worth paying attention to the hands to determine the man’s condition more accurately. If he holds his hands on his hips, clinging to the belt with his fingers, it means that he has very definite plans for the woman.

Behavior

The way a man in love behaves shows how interested he is in a woman.

Phone calls and SMS do not keep you waiting. Communication goes almost non-stop. The man cannot stand any pauses, calls with or without reason. Romantic SMS messages make a woman smile every few minutes.
Inviting people on a date becomes completely commonplace. Every evening a man tries to surprise his chosen one, preparing all sorts of surprises.
Present. During the candy-bouquet period, a man is constantly trying to present something. Sometimes choosing a present to suit your taste, and sometimes directly asking what exactly the woman wants.
Trips. The desire to spend more time with his other half pushes a man to travel together. These could be short weekend getaways, or a full-fledged vacation together.
Appearance. A man in love tries to impress a woman by any means, including his appearance. A carefully thought out wardrobe is one of the ways to recognize a man in love.

The behavior of a man in love is certainly very pleasant, the desire to constantly take care of a woman and make her happy. To make a man fall in love with you means to become the center of his universe for a while. However, how long this wonderful time will last depends solely on the woman, on her behavior, communication style, desire to compromise and maintain the relationship at the same level.

Sometimes, while a woman is racking her brains with the question of how a man in love behaves, everything is already obvious to those around her, so you can ask her friends for their opinions. In any case, all manifestations of love in men should be treated with respect. It is much more difficult for representatives of the stronger sex to admit their own feelings than for women. Therefore, every action is worthy of admiration and encouragement.

The way a guy in love behaves largely depends on what kind of love it is. The first love is certainly the most intense and emotional, the manifestations of which are impossible not to notice. Over the years, youthful ardor may cool down somewhat. You don’t know what kind of relationship there was before you, so you shouldn’t demand too much from a man if he is cautious and doesn’t show feelings, perhaps he has a series of unsuccessful romances behind him, or just a difficult breakup.

No matter how much a woman loves external manifestations of attention and sympathy, we should not forget that the psychology of any man in love is complex and simple at the same time.

On the one hand, if a man is in love, he can communicate this to others at every convenient and inconvenient occasion, on the other hand, he can close himself off and give himself away solely through body language simply because he is not sure of reciprocity. Showing that a man is in love, but a woman is not, means encouraging him to do more significant things, on the one hand. But again there is another side to the coin, if you play hard to get for too long, a man may simply get tired of it.

So in any case, it is worth maintaining a balance in a new relationship. Also, do not despair if, despite all the signs of a man in love, he does not talk about his feelings out loud. This may mean that things are really serious with him. While a person who begins to make confessions almost from the first meeting may turn out to be an ordinary ladies' man.

Each individual case is individual, so you should not try to identify love point by point and get upset if some point is missing. It is worth carefully observing the behavior of the chosen one, evaluating his actions, how words are combined with actions, whether he is inclined to make empty promises, how important the psychological and everyday comfort of a woman is to him. Based on observations, a woman can conclude how far a man is willing to go.

Girls should not forget that any feeling needs to be nourished. A person should not only give; receiving in return the equivalent of what was given is also important. Therefore, the main mistake is to allow a consumerist attitude towards a lover young man, which he may not forgive.

Everything about feelings, love, falling in love, sympathy is so fragile and tender that it seems like one move and it will disappear. When it all just begins, your heart sinks at the sight of the object of your admiration, your head is foggy from euphoria - how to understand whether your feelings are mutual? Moreover, no one puts them on display, does not shout about them at every corner, but, on the contrary, tries to hide them as carefully as possible. For one moment, it seemed that the guy was still in love. A minute passed - no, it probably really just seemed... You can guess using coffee grounds, chamomile, whether you like or dislike the stars for a very, very long time. And it is unlikely that this will give you a satisfactory, unambiguous answer. But it is quite possible to become more attentive, take a closer look at the guy, his behavior and understand whether he is in love.

Our feelings, even the most hidden ones, can be recognized if desired. If we change from the inside, then changes also occur outside - in behavior, appearance, speech, gait, facial expressions.

How can you tell that a guy is in love?

10 signs that a guy is clearly interested in you.

1. You can suspect that a guy is in love with you if in your presence he began to behave somewhat strangely. It’s not a fact that you will like the changes; on the contrary, you will be surprised. A quiet person may begin to behave defiantly, arrogantly, rudely, so that no one notices that he is embarrassed by you, and the soul of the company suddenly loses all his charm and enthusiasm, because he feels uncomfortable in your presence and constantly thinks about the fact that you are nearby.

2. You constantly feel his gaze on you. Sometimes you manage to catch him, but he quickly looks away. Ask your girlfriends to observe how often the guy looks in your direction. The main thing is that he himself does not notice that he is being watched. Try to check this version yourself: when you feel that the guy is looking at you, take out a mirror to supposedly fix your hair or makeup. In the reflection you will see where the guy’s gaze is directed, you can also turn sharply in his direction and if he was looking, then you are definitely interested in him.

3. You should be wary that there are too many random encounters. If a guy is in love, then he wants to see you as often as possible, to be as close to you as possible. Consciously or not, he will be looking for contact and therefore can literally be “underfoot” all day long. Meet you in the morning at the entrance, be next to the wardrobe, then in the dining room, during a break, just pass by, ask something trivial, turn to your interlocutor. Don’t be surprised if you meet him in an unusual place - near your house, in a store, in a movie, where you went with your friends. This can only mean one thing - his intelligence is working well and he is in love with you.

4. This point is a little controversial, and the guys themselves are against it. The fact is that a guy in love is betrayed by his gallantry and care. But male representatives protest - supposedly they are always like this, and not just when Cupid struck their heart. But we girls know that sometimes it is not so easy to get chivalrous actions from them, especially not in emergency moments, when honor and dignity are at stake, but in ordinary everyday life. So a sudden concern, an offer of help, an unusual concern about your well-being, mood, can tell you that someone has fallen in love.

5. By nature, men are very inattentive. Or rather, they pay attention only to what is very, very interesting to them. The rest of the information instantly disappears from their heads. Girls don’t understand this; we often remember even what we should have forgotten, something accidentally told and entrusted to us. A guy's good memory of the little things in your life says a lot. He remembers what date your birthday is, and not “like in the fall?” He knows who you are according to your horoscope, what city your sister lives in, what the name of your cat is, what juice do you prefer? He's definitely in love with you.

6. He changed his plans for you. No not like this. HE CHANGED HIS PLANS FOR YOU! Only a man in love is capable of such an act. Just be careful, you need to understand that you were the cause. Perhaps you let it slip that you are still going to come to this boring cleanup and stay after work to help decorate the room for the holiday. And, hearing this, the guy put aside his business, although he had previously intended to ignore these events. And if you directly asked for his help, knowing that he was busy, but did not receive a refusal - congratulations, this is love!

7. A guy in love will try to talk to you about topics that interest you. The reason could be a phrase you accidentally dropped about your love for dogs - in a couple of days he will decide to discuss with you the intricacies of caring for toy terriers, talk about his pet, and invite you to a thematic exhibition.

8. Have you noticed that the guy looks better?. If he used to calmly walk around in just jeans all week, but now he’s clearly started to preen himself, it means someone’s opinion is important to him. He might ask you for advice on whether that shirt suits him or whether you like his perfume (oh, that's a reason to hug you). But it’s better for you to be the first to notice the changes that have occurred and give him a compliment. To receive praise from the one you are in love with - what could be better? He will not be able to hide his joy and his contented appearance and red cheeks will betray his feelings.

9. A guy will try to become better for his beloved. We unconsciously begin to behave a little differently next to the object of love, we try to look better, smarter, more experienced, more interesting. Even notorious hooligans try to control themselves in front of their lady love and “be good.” This behavior can only mean one thing - the guy has fallen in love and really wants to make a positive impression.

10. Do you know guys who would like women's whims? They irritate, anger, infuriate - in a word, they do not evoke affection. Except for those moments when a guy is in love with a girl. In this case her whims seem to him a manifestation of weakness and insecurity. And he has a heroic feeling to save his beloved from adversity, satisfying all her whims.