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Consultation for parents

What is family?

Family is a small group based on marriage or consanguinity, whose members are bound by a common life, mutual assistance, moral and legal responsibility.

For a child, a family is an environment in which the conditions of his physical, mental, emotional and intellectual development.

Family... What should a family be built on? Maybe based on trust and love? Or maybe on mutual respect and understanding? Of course, all these are components of a strong foundation for a family, in a word, family values. That is, family values are something that cannot be bought for any money, inherited or stolen. Family values can be acquired and carried throughout life by everyone together. How can family values, such as family traditions, be introduced?

About family traditions

Family traditions are the spiritual atmosphere of a home, which is made up of the daily routine, customs, way of life and habits of its inhabitants. So, have a quick breakfast, go to work and meet in the evening without asking questions or talking. In other families, it is customary to have meals together, discuss plans, and there is increased attention to each other’s problems.

In each house, during its existence, its own ritual develops. The house gets used to its residents and begins to live at their rhythm. Its energy structure changes somewhat under the influence of traditions. After all, by and large, traditions are not only the family way of life, but also the relationships that develop between family members. It is these relationships that the house captures. If a family sets traditions for themselves as obligatory, then they can do a good job. Often following traditions helps us live. And no matter how strange they may seem, one thing is important: family traditions and rituals should not be cumbersome and far-fetched. Let them come into life naturally.

It is extremely difficult to form a family tradition if the children have grown up and have already formed a common attitude towards the family. Another thing is young families, where parents are free to show the child all the beauty of the world, envelop him with love and form a reliable life position throughout life.

A small child perceives the world through the eyes of adults - his parents. Dad and mom form a child's picture of the world from the very first meeting with their baby. First, they build a world of touches, sounds and visual images for him, then they teach him the first words, then they convey their attitude to all this.

How a child subsequently treats himself, others and life in general depends entirely on the parents. Life may seem to him like an endless holiday or an exciting journey, or he may see it as a frightening foray into wild places or as boring, thankless and hard work awaiting everyone right outside the school gates.

If most of the usual family rituals do not carry restrictions, but only joy and pleasure, this strengthens in children a sense of family integrity, a sense of the uniqueness of their own home and confidence in the future. That charge of inner warmth and optimism that each of us carries within us is acquired in childhood, and the greater it is, the better. Of course, a child’s character is not formed in one day, but we can say with confidence: the more childhood was like a holiday, and the more joy there is in it, the happier the little man will be in the future.

Start small - reading at night. Even if your child is still too small to understand what you are saying to him, just the sound of your voice will be incredibly useful for the baby. Every book should teach a child, educate him.

If necessary, you can compose evening stories yourself. First of all, it won't take you much time (20-30 minutes per day), since the fairy tale should not be long so that the child does not get tired. Secondly, you yourself will be able to teach him what you consider good.

Family traditions and rituals:

allow the baby to feel the stability of their lifestyle: “in any weather”;
in your family what has been established will take place;
give him a feeling of confidence in the world around him and security;
set the baby up for optimism and a positive perception of life, when every day is a holiday";
create unique childhood memories that the baby will someday tell his children about;
allow you to feel proud of yourself and your family.
You are quite capable of creating several family traditions, which children and grandchildren will probably stick to! Don't forget just three main rules:
a repeating event should be bright, positive, and memorable for the child;
tradition is a tradition to always be observed;
you can use smells, sounds, visual images.

Regardless of whether you are trying to preserve old home traditions that are dear to you or your husband, or are trying to come up with and instill in the family something new, remember that childhood shapes a child for life. And the main thing in childhood is that the child has it. Try to know when to stop: overly strict rules by which a family lives, which do not leave children any “freedom of maneuver,” overstrain the child’s psyche. The absence of a stable home structure and predictable home rituals, which calm the baby with their indispensable obligation, conveys to the child a feeling of insecurity at home and the precariousness of the universe.

May your home be cozy and bright!

Family and family values in raising a preschooler

“From how my childhood passed, who
led the child by the hand in childhood, that
entered his mind and heart from the environment
peace - it depends to a decisive extent on this,
what kind of person today’s baby will become.”
/IN. A. Sukhomlinsky/

Family- this is the first social institution that a child encounters in life, of which he is a part. The family takes a central place in raising a child. It is she who plays the main role in shaping the worldview, moral standards behavior, feelings, social and moral appearance and position of the baby. It is in the family that raising children should be based on love, experience, traditions, and personal example from the childhood of relatives and friends. And no matter what aspect of a child’s development we consider, it will always turn out that the family plays the main role in the formation of his personality at different age stages.

Therefore, the main problem of preserving family values is the revival of family traditions, which the family and family traditions play in the development and formation of the social and moral culture of the child.

Formation of values– this is the process of educational influence on the individual, on the result of this educational influence. The process of forming values begins in early childhood and lasts throughout a person’s life during his socialization. Many scientists, such as: A. N. Leontiev, M. I. Lisina, N. I. Nepomnyashchaya and others, consider the senior preschool age as sensitive for the formation of values, since this is the period of formation emotional sphere child, development of empathy, voluntary behavior, self-regulation, assimilation of moral norms and standards, rules of behavior, etc.

Preschool and family- two social institutions on which the effectiveness of the process of raising a child depends. Of course, the influence of the family on the child is stronger than the influence preschool or schools. However, the family cannot fully ensure the upbringing of an active, moral and creative personality. Therefore, cooperation between family and kindergarten is necessary. Neither kindergarten, a school without a family, nor a family without a kindergarten, schools are not able to cope with the subtlest and most complex tasks of human development. It’s not for nothing that the old aphorism says: “The most difficult thing in working with children is working with their parents.” The main task of the teacher in organizing interaction with parents is to intensify the pedagogical and educational activities of the family, to give it a purposeful, socially significant character. It is the relationships of all participants in the educational process that contribute to the formation of personality. Purposeful communication with family is of great social importance. This interaction determines the pedagogical tactics of the preschool institution and allows the teacher to find the right words when communicating with parents.

The family and kindergarten are characterized by specific capabilities in the formation of a meaningful “image of family” in a preschooler, which is the basis for differentiating the priority spheres of their influence in this process.

The teacher’s task is to help preschoolers understand and develop a family orientation towards the world and its values. To do this, it is necessary to organize your educational work so that the teacher and parents go in the same direction.

The family is a unique primary society that gives the child a feeling of psychological security, support, and unconditional, non-judgmental acceptance.

This is exactly what modern specialists and scientists in the field of family talk about (T. A. Markova, O. L. Zvereva, E. P. Arnautova, V. P. Dubrova, I. V. Lapitskaya, etc.). In their opinion family institution- this is an institute emotional relationships, which the child receives from people close to him.

Raising children needs to be built on love, experience, traditions, personal example from childhood of relatives and friends. Therefore, the family plays the main role in the development of his personality at different age stages. IN Lately The problem of preserving family values and traditions becomes the most pressing. The principle on which our whole life is based is family values. By these principles we judge what is right and what is wrong.

What is family?

Family is a small group based on marriage or consanguinity, whose members are bound by a common life, mutual assistance, moral and legal responsibility.

In the theory of family law, a family is defined as a circle of persons bound by personal non-property and property rights and obligations arising from marriage, kinship, and adoption.

For a child, the family is the environment in which the conditions for his physical, mental, emotional and intellectual development are formed.

For an adult, the family is a source of satisfaction for a number of his needs and a small team that places various and quite complex demands on him. At the stages of a person’s life cycle, his functions and status in the family change successively.

Family... What should a family be built on? Maybe based on trust and love? Or maybe on mutual respect and understanding? Of course, all these are components of a strong foundation for a family, in a word, family values. That is, family values are something that cannot be bought for any money, inherited or stolen. Family values can be acquired and carried throughout life by everyone together. Of course, it is difficult to talk about all the stages of family formation in one article. Therefore, let's talk about how you can introduce family values, such as family traditions.

About family traditions

Real desire for family happiness and family well-being finds expression in the creation of family traditions. Once upon a time, traditions were a mandatory feature of a “joint” family, reflecting moral position its members. Early initiation children to discuss all issues family life- a long-standing good tradition.

Family traditions are the spiritual atmosphere of a home, which is made up of the daily routine, customs, way of life and habits of its inhabitants. Thus, some families prefer to get up early, have a quick breakfast, go to work and meet in the evening without asking questions or talking. In other families, it is customary to have meals together, discuss plans, and there is increased attention to each other’s problems.

It is extremely difficult to form a family tradition if the children have grown up and have already formed a common attitude towards the family. Another thing is young families, where parents are free to show their child all the beauty of the world, envelop him with love and form a reliable position in life throughout his life.

Family traditions and rituals:

allow the baby to feel the stability of their lifestyle: “in any weather”;
in your family what has been established will take place;
give him a feeling of confidence in the world around him and security;
set the baby up for optimism and a positive perception of life, when every day is a holiday";
create unique childhood memories that the baby will someday tell his children about;
allow you to feel proud of yourself and your family.
You are quite capable of creating several family traditions that your children and grandchildren may adhere to! Don't forget just three main rules:
a repeating event should be bright, positive, and memorable for the child;
tradition is a tradition to always be observed;
you can use smells, sounds, visual images,

– The main thing is that there is something in this traditional action that influences the child’s feelings and perceptions. What can they be? family holidays and rituals? Instead of the usual “hello-bye”, a friendly family can agree to greet each other with a special “code” word, understandable only to “their own”! For example: “Great, hero!” or “Hello, princess!” It’s funny if, when saying hello, someone says the first half of the word, and his interlocutor says the second. You can also come up with special forms of farewell - like funny wishes or advice to each other for the whole day. There is great scope for creating family traditions in the kitchen and culinary talents of one of the family members. It's great if everyone gets together for a family lunch or dinner on the weekends. The main thing is that this should not be a dull eating of delicacies, but be remembered by the clink of glasses, the appetizing smell of delicious dishes and the smiles of household members. It will be even more interesting if you give your child the opportunity to master his “signature dish,” which will take pride of place on the table. Or invite him to learn something new together every Sunday. Kitchen experiments are good for babies because the result is always visible, tangible, and... smells very tasty! You can also organize celebrations of “national” cuisine – one or a variety of them! This way, the baby will be able to learn a lot of new things about the world around him and master the exotic wisdom of behavior at the table - for example, how to hold chopsticks or... drink from a saucer. Here are some more ideas for lasting culinary traditions: a variety of preparations “for the winter,” a unique way of making tea or coffee, or a traditional picnic for the first weekend of summer. You may be surprised, but the best tradition associated with a child’s birthday is... truly celebrating this day as the most best holiday! Many adults sadly recall that in their family “it was not customary to celebrate birthdays.” Let your baby never utter this sad phrase!

Birthday is so noisy fun party precisely with those guests whom the hero of the occasion himself wants to invite - best gift. Let the baby feel his importance for loved ones from childhood, learn to receive guests and... of course, get used to the tradition of celebrating birthdays! And for adults, this holiday is an occasion to fantasize about special rituals. In many families, it is customary to mark the child’s growth on a special ruler. You can trace the baby’s arms and legs every year or create a photo gallery. In a word, do something that will help him, then remember his childhood. Together with your child you can start compiling family tree or start collecting some kind of collection, the scope for imagination is limitless! The main thing is to feel that it is truly “yours” and brings joy to all family members. An excellent option is an annual trip with the whole family to the sea or out of town for a picnic. During such trips, the family becomes even closer, resolving internal conflicts.

Sunday watching movies together not in the cinema, but at home. Remember how before, when there were no computers and tablets, the whole family gathered around the TV and watched a film, discussing the characters, sharing their impressions of what they saw. This is very unifying. Regardless of whether you are trying to preserve old home traditions that are dear to you or your husband, or are trying to come up with and instill in the family something new, remember that childhood shapes a child for life. And the main thing in childhood is that the child has it. Try to know when to stop: excessively strict rules, according to which the family lives, which do not leave children any “freedom of maneuver,” overstrain the child’s psyche. The absence of a stable home structure and predictable home rituals, which calm the baby with their indispensable obligation, conveys to the child a feeling of insecurity at home and the precariousness of the universe.

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Consultation for parents

"Family and family values."

What is family?

Family is a small group based on marriage or consanguinity, whose members are bound by a common life, mutual assistance, moral and legal responsibility.

In the theory of family law, a family is defined as a circle of persons bound by personal non-property and property rights and obligations arising from marriage, kinship, and adoption.

For a child, the family is the environment in which the conditions for his physical, mental, emotional and intellectual development are formed.

Family... What should a family be built on? Maybe based on trust and love? Or maybe on mutual respect and understanding? Of course, all these are components of a strong foundation for a family, in a word, family values. That is, family values are something that cannot be bought for any money, inherited or stolen. Family values can be acquired and carried throughout life by everyone together. Of course, it is difficult to talk about all the stages of family formation in one article. Therefore, let's talk about how you can introduce family values, such as family traditions.

About family traditions

The real desire for family happiness and family well-being is expressed in the creation of family traditions. Once upon a time, traditions were a mandatory feature of a “joint” family and reflected the moral position of its members. Early involvement of children in discussing all issues of family life is a long-standing good tradition.

Family traditions are the spiritual atmosphere of the house, which is made up of the daily routine, customs, way of life and habits of its inhabitants. Thus, some families prefer to get up early, have a quick breakfast, go to work and meet in the evening without asking questions or talking. In other families, it is customary to have meals together, discuss plans, and there is increased attention to each other’s problems.

If necessary, you can compose evening stories yourself. First of all, it won't take you much time(20-30 minutes per day), since the fairy tale should not be long so that the child does not get tired. Secondly, you yourself will be able to teach him what you consider good.

Family traditions and rituals:

allow the baby to feel the stability of their lifestyle: “in any weather”;
in your family what has been established will take place;
give him a feeling of confidence in the world around him and security;
set the baby up for optimism and a positive perception of life, when every day is a holiday";
create unique childhood memories that the baby will someday tell his children about;
allow you to feel proud of yourself and your family.
You are quite capable of creating several family traditions that your children and grandchildren may adhere to! Don't forget just three main rules:
a repeating event should be bright, positive, and memorable for the child;
Tradition is a tradition to always be observed;
you can use smells, sounds, visual images,

– The main thing is that there is something in this traditional action that influences the child’s feelings and perceptions. What can family holidays and rituals be like? Instead of the usual “hello-bye”, a friendly family can agree to greet each other with a special “code” word, understandable only to “their own”! For example: “Great, hero!” or “Hello, princess!” It’s funny if, when saying hello, someone says the first half of the word, and his interlocutor says the second. You can also come up with special forms of farewell - like funny wishes or advice to each other for the whole day. There is great scope for creating family traditions in the kitchen and culinary talents of one of the family members. It's great if everyone gets together for a family lunch or dinner on the weekends. The main thing is that this should not be a dull eating of delicacies, but be remembered by the clink of glasses, the appetizing smell of delicious dishes and the smiles of household members. It will be even more interesting if you give your child the opportunity to master his “signature dish,” which will take pride of place on the table. Or invite him to learn something new together every Sunday. Kitchen experiments are good for babies because the result is always visible, tangible, and... smells very tasty! You can also organize celebrations of “national” cuisine – one or a variety of them! This way, the baby will be able to learn a lot of new things about the world around him and master the exotic wisdom of behavior at the table - for example, how to hold chopsticks or... drink from a saucer. Here are some more ideas for lasting culinary traditions: a variety of preparations “for the winter,” a unique way of making tea or coffee, or a traditional picnic for the first weekend of summer. You may be surprised, but the best tradition associated with a child’s birthday is... really celebrating this day as the best holiday! Many adults sadly recall that in their family “it was not customary to celebrate birthdays.” Let your baby never utter this sad phrase!

A birthday as a noisy, cheerful holiday with exactly those guests whom the hero of the occasion himself wants to invite is the best gift. Let the baby feel his importance for loved ones from childhood, learn to receive guests and... of course, get used to the tradition of celebrating birthdays! And for adults, this holiday is an occasion to fantasize about special rituals. In many families, it is customary to mark the child’s growth on a special ruler. You can trace the baby’s arms and legs every year or create a photo gallery. In a word, do something that will help him, then remember his childhood. Together with your child, you can start drawing up a family tree or start collecting some kind of collection; the scope for imagination is limitless! The main thing is to feel that it is truly “yours” and brings joy to all family members. An excellent option is an annual trip with the whole family to the sea or out of town for a picnic. During such trips, the family becomes even closer, resolving internal conflicts.

Sunday watching movies together not in the cinema, but at home. Remember how before, when there were no computers and tablets, the whole family gathered around the TV and watched a film, discussing the characters, sharing their impressions of what they saw. This is very unifying. Regardless of whether you are trying to preserve old home traditions that are dear to you or your husband, or are trying to come up with and instill in the family something new, remember that childhood shapes a child for life. And the main thing in childhood is that the child has it. Try to know when to stop: overly strict rules by which a family lives, which do not leave children any “freedom of maneuver,” overstrain the child’s psyche. The absence of a stable home structure and predictable home rituals, which calm the baby with their indispensable obligation, conveys to the child a feeling of insecurity at home and the precariousness of the universe.

May your home be cozy and bright!

What is family?

Family- a small group based on marriage or consanguinity, whose members are bound by a common life, mutual assistance, moral and legal responsibility.

In the theory of family law, a family is defined as a circle of persons bound by personal non-property and property rights and obligations arising from marriage, kinship, and adoption.

For a child, the family is the environment in which the conditions for his physical, mental, emotional and intellectual development are formed.

Family... What should a family be built on? Maybe based on trust and love? Or maybe on mutual respect and understanding? Of course, all these are components of a strong foundation for a family, in a word, family values. That is, family values are something that cannot be bought for any money, inherited or stolen. Family values can be acquired and carried throughout life by everyone together. Of course, it is difficult to talk about all the stages of family formation in one article. Therefore, let's talk about how you can introduce family values, such as family traditions.

About family traditions

Family traditions- this is the spiritual atmosphere of the house, which is made up of the daily routine, customs, way of life and habits of its inhabitants. Thus, some families prefer to get up early, have a quick breakfast, go to work and meet in the evening without asking questions or talking. In other families, it is customary to have meals together, discuss plans, and there is increased attention to each other’s problems.

Family traditions and rituals:

allow the baby to feel the stability of their lifestyle: “in any weather”;
in your family what has been established will take place;
give him a feeling of confidence in the world around him and security;
set the baby up for optimism and a positive perception of life, when every day is a holiday";
create unique childhood memories that the baby will someday tell his children about;
allow you to feel proud of yourself and your family.

Consultation for parents.

Topic: “Family and family values”

For a child, the family is the environment in which the conditions for his physical, mental, emotional and intellectual development are formed.

Family... What should a family be built on? Maybe based on trust and love? Or maybe on mutual respect and understanding? Of course, all these are components of a strong foundation for a family, in a word, family values. That is, family values are something that cannot be bought for any money or received by inheritance. Family values can be acquired and carried throughout life by everyone together. Of course, it is difficult to talk about all the stages of family formation in one article. Therefore, let's talk about how you can introduce family values, such as family traditions.

About family traditions

Start small - reading at night. Every book should teach a child, educate him.

If necessary, you can compose evening stories yourself. Firstly, it will not take you much time (20-30 minutes a day), since the fairy tale should not be long so that the child does not get tired. Secondly, you yourself will be able to teach him what you consider good.

Family traditions:

Allow the baby to feel the stability of their lifestyle: “in any weather”;

In your family, what is established will happen;

Give him a feeling of confidence in the world around him and security;

They set the child up for optimism and a positive perception of life, when every day is a holiday";

They create unique childhood memories that the baby will someday tell his children about;

They allow you to feel proud of yourself and your family.

You are quite capable of creating several family traditions that your children and grandchildren may adhere to! Just don't forget three main rules:

A recurring event should be bright, positive, and memorable for the child;

Tradition is a tradition to always be observed;

You can use smells, sounds, visual images,

The main thing is that there is something in this traditional action that influences the child’s feelings and perceptions. You may be surprised, but the best tradition associated with a child’s birthday is... truly celebrating this day as the best holiday! Many adults sadly recall that in their family “it was not customary to celebrate birthdays.” Let your baby never utter this sad phrase!

A birthday as a noisy, cheerful holiday with exactly those guests whom the hero of the occasion himself wants to invite is the best gift. Let the baby feel his importance for loved ones from childhood, learn to receive guests and... of course, get used to the tradition of celebrating birthdays. Sunday watching movies together not in the cinema, but at home. Remember how before, when there were no computers and tablets, the whole family gathered around the TV and watched a film, discussing the characters, sharing their impressions of what they saw. This is very unifying. Regardless of whether you are trying to preserve old home traditions that are dear to you or your husband, or are trying to come up with and instill in the family something new, remember that childhood shapes a child for life. And the main thing in childhood is that the child has it. Try to know when to stop: overly strict rules by which a family lives, which do not leave children any “freedom of maneuver,” overstrain the child’s psyche. The absence of a stable home structure and predictable home rituals, which calm the baby with their indispensable obligation, conveys to the child a feeling of insecurity at home and the precariousness of the universe.

Let it be cozy and bright in your home.

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