Everyone wants to be a magnet, attracting pleasant events to themselves, but everyone is already a magnet, attracting to themselves what sticks.

Most of the population begins to think about this when they get stuck like a fly in a sticky trap, and when they try to take off, their wings come off.
Women think about their “wrong magnetism” when they get into a relationship with the “wrong man”, men come to thoughts: “something is wrong here” when they fail to earn money, and all patients in their hours of suffering leave the prayers “God, What did I do to deserve this?
So, everyone attracts something. It’s not always what’s pleasant now. But if you look in depth, they attract either life, or through death, new life. That is, they either create their Self right here and now, or destroy what is now interfering with the new Self.
Whether we like it or not, we serve Life. Perhaps not even your own. For example, the lives of worms.
The moral is obvious: people are magnetic creatures.

And in order to be able to attract not only negativity, but also what they want with their minds, they need to know a few rules:

1. We attract events not with thoughts, but with emotional states emitted into the world.
For example, when we radiate joy, we attract other people to it, who unconsciously perceive it as an excess of energy. Experiencing need in any manifestation (lack of money, loneliness, illness), we demonstrate to others the intention to feed on their energy, from which they unconsciously choose to distance themselves from the additional leakage of energy.
2. Events in response to our emotional reaction are not attracted immediately, but with a delay.
There is a deadline between what was planned and its implementation in reality - a delay of 40 days. What happens to us is what we planted in ourselves (experienced the feeling) 40 days ago. Therefore, we often do not see the connection between cause and effect. But there is a connection nonetheless. It is important to remember: everything that is sown will germinate. This leads to the third rule. 3. To be in a positive state and radiate it outward, you need to reprogram your past.
Moreover, the earlier past influences subsequent events. For example, the negative experience of school years is already programmed by the emotions experienced in the infancy period. And an infant is shaped by the emotions of his parents.
Reprogramming the past changes neural connections in the brain and a person’s hormonal levels.
There are many practices for reprogramming the past, and I consider the Individual Arrangement technique to be one of the most powerful, where there is no distortion on the part of the group or the leader.
The goal of reprogramming the past is to create a stable perception of such a life experience in which the individual feels (that is, generates into the world) loved, desired, strong and significant. Constantly radiating such a sense of self is a guarantee of the constant attraction of favorable events.
4. There should be no pause in the form of waiting between feeling (generating) and the onset of the desired event.
Waiting is also an emotional state, meaning suffering in a hidden form. Waiting means that the person is currently unhappy. He is planting the seeds of suffering right now that will sprout in 40 days. Therefore, they say that waiting for the result ruins the result. In this case, it is necessary to reveal the true reason hidden in the past.
5. Letting go of expectations and enjoying the current moment is the main ability of people with the Victorious Life Scenario, where a person sets goals, but goes to them not to obtain happiness, but from states of happiness and POWER.
Letting go of expectations is possible only on the condition that a person lives not from the state of “I WANT TO RECEIVE”, but from the state of “I WANT TO GIVE”. The giver is guaranteed to receive.
6. Giving must be appropriate.
You cannot give what is not asked for and by force. The one who wants to give first finds out what the other person needs, and only then helps him independently reach his goals.
Respect for the path of another, despite the difficulties of the one walking, returns respect to the giver.
7. Having filled the time with giving, there will be no time to wait and suffer. After 40 days, what was given will begin to return and reinforce the correctly laid path - the Path of the Winner - of the magnetic personality.

Are you familiar, dear readers of SZOZH, with the desire to please someone, to make friends with someone, to attract someone into your life?

These are simple human desires that probably visit each of us.

So let's find out how to do it right - attract the people we need into our lives.

How to attract the right / loved one?

The article consists of two parts:

1. First, we will decide who exactly we need in order to attract such a person into our lives.
2. And then we will work on keeping this person close (without any violence?), We will figure out how to attract and interest him.

The first point is accomplished using . The second point is implemented using the rule “ If you want to receive, give first". Okay, now first things first.

To attract the right person into your life, you first need to formulate an image in your head. Think about everything you would like to see in this person. Character qualities, appearance, life principles. In short, think through whatever you want. However, keep in mind the fact that your invented image is just a mock-up; a real person may differ in some ways.

Is the image ready? Great! Now let's proceed directly to the attraction of this person. To do this, use the power of thought by regularly practicing visualization.

Let's say you want to meet your love. Then imagine in vivid colors how this person appears in your life, and how your life changes with him.? Visualize in great detail how you get to know each other, spend time together, love each other.

A sign that you are doing everything right will be a feeling of joy and happiness during and after visualization.

Remember, friends: So think about the good, about what you want to get! Do you want love? Amazing! Live it, let it become your second reality. Throw out of your head all useless thoughts that are not beneficial for your present and future. Constantly replay a movie in your head in which your loved one makes you happy!? You will definitely get it, the main thing is patience and faith in the result.

Attention! Visualization should not be a burden to you. That is, regularity, of course, is necessary, but if you are not in the mood at the moment, then you do not need to force yourself.

It is also worth noting that it will not be possible to visualize attracting a specific person who exists in reality into your life. It is important! It is not recommended to make a real person your soulmate using visualization. If you visualize a real person, then this person will most likely feel an inexplicable disgust towards you or simply indifference. After all, you didn’t ask him, but you’re trying to subjugate him against his will, and you can’t do that. This is felt on an intuitive level, believe me. But it doesn’t matter - read below about how you can interest a real person.

If you want to receive, give first!

In order to interest the person you need, you should apply the ““ rule. It always works!

Every person thinks first of all about himself/herself. People don't care about other people's shortcomings and weaknesses. There is no point in trying to interest someone by flaunting your own coolness or some achievements. Our interlocutors are primarily attracted to something completely different.

And this is different - interest in their person. Sincere interest. How to attract the interest of a girl or guy? How to attract attention? Very simple. Talk not about what is interesting to you, but about what is interesting to the person you want to please. Talk not about yourself, but about your interlocutor, his inner world, his hobbies. Show genuine interest and don't ask for anything in return.

Surprising but true! Even if you say almost nothing about yourself, after such a conversation you will be considered an extremely interesting and engaging person. And what’s even more surprising is that your interlocutor will gradually begin to show the same sincere interest in you.

And not to interrupt and insert your opinion. Refuse to demand reciprocal interest or mutual love, and instead let the other person feel valued. Be sincerely interested in him, and gradually this interest will become mutual! That is, in the end you will get what you refused.

Why does this work? We are focused only on ourselves. When someone makes us feel our own importance, we automatically begin to treat such a person well.? We notice such people with sincere interest and distinguish them from others. We pay more attention to them, and we can see something we haven’t seen before. Analyze your life and you will understand the truth of these statements.

Attention! Only sincere interest can cause reciprocity. If you are not really interested in a person, and you are trying to deceive him by feigning interest, then, most likely, nothing will work out with this person.

If you have a sincere interest in someone, then there is a very high probability that this interest will return to you many times over. It's simple! In order to receive something, we first give it. And it works, friends! If this is really your person, then he will not get away from you. You give to him, he gives to you - what else is needed for happiness?

CONCLUSION

The power of thought and the renunciation of the desire to receive works wonders. Thanks to the power of thought, we attract the right people to us. And by giving up the desire to receive reciprocity and simply giving sincere interest, we get what we gave up.

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Have you sometimes noticed that as soon as we wanted something, but so strongly that this feeling passionately and completely took over our consciousness, how this desire was fulfilled? “Coincidence! Accident!”, many may say. And they will be wrong. Did you know that man is nature's most perfect magnet? What we think and hope for is inevitably attracted to us. This is ingenious, like everything simple, and lies in the power of attraction. No matter what you would like to receive, a new dress, a gas boiler or a car with a convertible roof, you need to fully concentrate on it.

Your consciousness will send the “necessary” waves into the world, “heard” by the universe, and it, in turn, will react to them, attracting these things to you.

A mistake that many people make people who dream about something is that they are more think about what, on the contrary, they don’t want.

For example, they don’t want to get sick, they don’t want to lose interest from their loved one, they don’t want to stand in line, etc. It is not right. Thinking about the bad, we attract only negativity to ourselves.

Perhaps you yourself sometimes notice that the more and more strongly one of your friends complains about something, the more troubles happen to him, which he will continue to complain about in the future.

Moreover, the brighter and stronger his feelings and emotions, the faster all negative events happen in his life! Anyone who is carried away by listing his illnesses will never get rid of them.

One who speaks of luck and prosperity and is in a state of happiness.
American psychologists, who were the first to discover the law of wish fulfillment, claim that it means following certain rules that help you focus on what you want.

So:

• Make a mental list of all the things that usually irritate you and make you want to complain. Write it down in the form of a list: the wife does not understand, the house is not repaired, the salary is not enough, etc.;

• reformulate these phrases into positive intentions: my wife and I understand each other perfectly, I am doing expensive renovations in the house and installing a shower stall, heated floors, I have an excellent salary that allows me to go on vacation to Turkey and buy a car”;

• The Universe must receive a specific message from you. For example, if you ask to send more money, don’t be surprised if your salary is increased by a couple of rubles. Or, if you ask to meet the man of your dreams, it is likely that he will just come into your office for a minute or even turn out to be married;

• if your list includes mutually exclusive desires, for example, to have a strong family and a dizzying career, the stronger of them will definitely come true;

• You shouldn’t order the Universe exactly how your wishes should come true. Your task is to correctly formulate requests. If you want jewelry, don't think like this:

“If I earn this amount of money, I’ll buy a bracelet”. Maybe you will receive it as a gift, perhaps you will receive an inheritance and buy the desired item yourself;

Now - the most important thing. Banish limiting fears, beliefs and doubts. Your wish may not come true only because you don’t believe in it:

“At my age, it’s too late to change my profession (job)”, “How can someone like me?” etc.

Such thoughts are a complete negation of all the good things that could happen to you;

• Imagine as often as possible that your wish has come true. At the same time, fully concentrate on your feelings. The rustle of blossoming peaches in the garden of your new home, the smell of a leather car interior, the soft reflection of diamonds in your ears... At the same time, you should experience dizzying happiness! Dissolve in it! Taste! Enjoy and tremble with delight! This is a prerequisite;

• To fulfill your desire faster, take steps towards it. Immerse yourself completely in the topic that interests you. If you dream of having a “complete” workshop, take an interest in what modern companies offer welding equipment or electric drills.

If you are raving about a new car, go to car dealerships, clearly imagining that this elegant Mazda will soon be in your garage; if you want a house, study real estate prices, etc.

• Everyone sees the process of fulfilling desires differently. For some it is magic, for others it is positive self-programming. Wish, dream and firmly believe in it! Life is built on the same laws. Help your mind grasp the necessary information, direct all your attention to it. This is the principle of the secret of fulfilling desires.

Copyright © 2010 Balezin Dmitry

Health is an integral part of life. If it is not there, then you will not experience happiness. That is why it is always worth remembering about health, maintaining it and treating illnesses in a timely manner. This can be done at home too. With the help of the power of thought, we can create an ideal healthy aura. To do this you need a few simple things.

Faith. You need to believe that thoughts are material and their power is quite large-scale. You need to not only believe, but also know that you yourself can force your thoughts to attract health into your life.
Patience is also very important here. Nothing is ever given to us right away and just like that. In order to achieve the best result, you will have to wait time, constantly supporting your thoughts. Initially it could be even worse. This negative energy is fighting for a place in the sun. But, if you program your thoughts only for the good, then the illness will be replaced by health.

Formula for bringing health into your home

1. Ownership of health.
You need to learn and practice meditation. The essence of meditation is that you work with your subconscious, programming it to achieve what you want. After this procedure you will actually feel healthy. To improve the result, you can make a wish card or something else that lifts your mood and improves your well-being. You need to not just look at these cards, but learn to develop positive emotions and a good mood. You need to understand that nothing will work out from the first lesson. But it normal. Rule 2: Be patient. Then everything will work out. There is no need to waste time and effort on this. The main task that you must achieve is to attract a feeling of healthy sensations and great well-being.
2. Love your body and yourself.
Once you have managed to continuously feel in a good mood, you can add another wonderful feeling: a feeling of love for yourself and life. The main task is to be in a great mood and look at yourself and your body with love and pride. This will allow you to distract yourself from negative thoughts and enjoy the beautiful moments of life.
3. Let go of the desire to be healthy.
The whole process takes from 3 to 12 months of working on yourself in this mode. It all depends on how hard you resist. Once you achieve the desired result, simply let go of the task of being healthy. Switch to something else.
Keep one thing in mind. Just because you deal with your thoughts doesn’t mean you shouldn’t care about your lifestyle outwardly! Engage in active sports, eat right, be free from bad habits, etc. and if you have serious health problems, then first it is better to consult a doctor and only then begin to develop the power of thought.
This method will work best when you do not have any diseases that require medical treatment. Often we begin to mope during depression, which is inevitable in modern life. It is important to correctly understand when the illness began and immediately begin to work with it using the method of meditation.
Be healthy!

Every thought that arises in us sends out vibrational waves that affect the world around us.

Thoughts are things that are also capable of very powerful action. Having understood the nature of this amazing force and the laws that govern it, we will be able to subjugate it and make it our tool and assistant.

Every thought that arises in us, whether it be weak or strong, good or bad, healthy or sick, sends out vibrational waves that influence to a greater or lesser extent all those with whom we come into contact or who find themselves in the circle of vibrational waves. waves of our thoughts.

On the other hand, our thoughts, acting on others, influence ourselves not only from time to time, but constantly. It is in the thoughts inherent in a person that his “I” manifests itself; As a result, the biblical expression “what a man thinks in his heart is what he really is” should be taken literally. We are all products of our spiritual creativity. Thought systematically directed at the same subject is visible not only in the character, but even in the appearance of a person. This is a proven fact: you only have to look around you to be convinced of it. You've probably already noticed how a person's occupation is reflected in his appearance and general character. If you ever changed your activities, then your general character, as well as your appearance, followed the same change. Your new occupation brought with it a new series of thoughts, and the latter were reflected in matter.

The attractive power of thought

Another very important phenomenon in the manifestation of thought is its attractive power. The attractive property of thought operates on the basis of the law: “like attracts like.” Having constantly some definite thoughts in your mind, you attract to yourself thoughts and beliefs of the same kind from the vast environment of thoughts around you, although elusive, but powerful: good thoughts attract other good thoughts, bad ones - bad ones; cheerful thoughts - similar ones; sad thoughts and thoughts of doubt follow the same rule, and so it is with all your thoughts.

This property is one of the greatest in nature, which, properly applied, will attract help from sources completely unexpected. Thoughts are “material realities” that have the property of attracting other thought waves of the same vibration and quality.

Thought is not a dynamic force, it is a very real thing, like some material object. Thought is a refined form of matter or a rather crude form of spirit; you may quite rightly regard it as both. Matter is the gross form of spirit, and spirit is the subtle form of matter. Everything in our Universe consists of one type of matter, which manifests itself in various forms, starting with material forms and ending with the subtlest form of spirit.

When we think, we spread around us the vibrations of the subtlest ethereal substance, which is as real as subtle vapor or gas, liquids and solids. We do not see thought, but we also cannot see subtle vapor or gas. We cannot smell and determine the taste of thought; we also cannot smell and determine the taste of clean air.

The nature of the mental vibrations emanating from us is determined by the essence of the thought itself. People with superpowers who can see thoughts say that thoughts have a certain color. Our fearful and bad thoughts hang over the earth itself in the form of dark, heavy clouds; clear, cheerful, happy and confident thoughts are noticeable in the form of light cirrus, gaseous clouds, quickly rushing and mixing with others similar to them, forming cirrus cloud chains, high above the heaps of dense, suffocating, disgusting fumes formed from fearful and envious thoughts.

The distance to which thought waves move away from us does not matter; but they always have a connection with you and always have some effect both on you and on others. It is not easy for you to free yourself from the influence of these manifestations of your spirit. If you spread bad thoughts, you become the prime target for them, and your only hope of neutralizing and neutralizing them is to spread new strong positive thought waves.

The definition “like attracts like” very well reflects the tendencies of thought waves; the manifestation of such a property of thought is one of the most striking signs in a number of mental phenomena. Your thought attracts the corresponding thoughts of others and thereby increases your stock of this type of thoughts.

Fearful or unpleasant thoughts attract to themselves all other thoughts of the same kind and unite with them. The more persistently you think about this, the greater the influx of such unwanted thoughts. The result is that you will not only suffer from the thoughts created by your mind, but also from the thoughts of others, so that a difficult situation arises. And the further you think like this, the more difficult your situation will be. But think: “I am not afraid,” and every brave thought in your environment, like an arrow, will rush towards you and help you. If you have bright, cheerful and happy thoughts, then you will attract others similar to them and you will feel more cheerful, joyful and happier as a result of their combined action. Try it!

In the world of thought, you get back everything you give at a good rate. If you send only good thoughts, then good thoughts will return to you with a significant increase, and you will feel good in the company of well-disposed people who treat you kindly, thanks to this you will only benefit. Even from a personal point of view, it is better to have good thoughts.

To achieve your goals, you must constantly maintain within yourself and spread around you a firm, confident, fearless thought wave: “I can,” which will attract similar thought waves of others to you; such waves will have a good effect on you, strengthen your strength and help you fulfill your aspirations.

If you try to think in this way in practice, at least for one month, then you will soon notice a huge change in your life, a huge change in yourself. You will develop an aversion to your previous unworthy, evil mental activity and you will not agree to return to it under any conditions and at any price. Before a month has passed, you will already notice the beneficial power of the returning thought waves, and your whole life will change completely. Give it a try. You will never regret it!

How to Succeed with Compelling Thinking

It is considered a reliable fact that all successful people achieved it thanks to their powerful, strict, forceful, concentrated waves of thought. They directed their minds towards a specific goal and used their will to give their thoughts a definite direction. This line of thought contributes to the development of their character, and thanks to this they go straight to the goal that they have chosen for themselves from the very beginning. Others had the same goal in mind, but did not achieve it because they did not give proper persistence and concentration to their thoughts.

To successfully achieve a mentally outlined ideal, you need: firstly, an irresistible desire, secondly, complete faith in your ability to fulfill your desire (and not a timid assumption), thirdly, a firm decision to achieve your goal (and not a simple intention: "I will try").

The specified qualities of thoughts, of course, guarantee success if they are accurately executed. They will develop character and develop the ability to achieve goals, since “thoughts are expressed in action”; they will give you firm strength to influence circumstances; they will trigger thought waves that will attract others like them to help you.

If you have the thought, "I can't," then you are spreading vibrations that will create the feeling that you really can't. The sense of self-preservation makes other people distrustful of such persons and avoid them. No person feels attracted to someone who thinks, “I can’t”; This form of thinking creates conditions that avert rather than attract.

When you have the thoughts: “I want and I can,” then the oscillating waves begin to move, producing an exciting effect; everyone will feel attracted to you and everything will be done according to your wishes. Strong people will feel sympathy for you and will be happy to work with you; weak people, aware of your strength and needing it, will feel attracted to you and unconsciously submit to your influence.

This is an example of the attractive quality of thought. Try it!

The attractive power of thought can also accomplish much more. It can attract people to you who are interested in the same thing, just like you. The latter will feel attracted to you, and you to them, and each of you will help the other - to mutual benefit. This power will attract people to you who can help you and promote your interests. She will also attract to you those who need your services or help; they will benefit from you to your advantage. Of course, you had to feel affection for such a person and help him. Of course you have had similar cases. Why? Why do you willingly patronize one and distrust another who is no worse than him? Thanks to the power of mental vibrations. This is the whole secret. The same quality of thought attracts you to those whose vibrations are of equal length to yours, so that you will instinctively find those who can do you service and help you.

It must also be said that the degree of your success is determined by your belief in your strength. Shaky, wavering faith will bring you incomplete success, but firm, determined, complete faith that you can control your will and power of thought produces results bordering on miracles. Try to develop such faith in yourself and always combine it with a firm mental demand for what you need: then you will always have success. “Ask and it will be given to you, knock and it will be opened”; however, be sure to accompany your demands with a strong belief and expectation of success.

But this does not mean at all that all problems can be solved and everything can be achieved only by the power of thought. A person who is caught up in his aspiration and has concentrated his mental impulses should never sit back and wait for something. Thoughts are expressed in actions; the more persistent the thought, the stronger the action. You can strive for some very unattainable goal and be quite confident that you will achieve it; you will always realize it. Everything that you firmly and confidently desire will belong to you, think about it. Try everything. Try it seriously and you will succeed. All this is based on the operation of a powerful law.

Based on materials from the book by William Atkinson - The Power of Thought.